hasunoha - Zen Q&A

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I had a boyfriend of 1 year, and we broke up the other day.
The reason we broke up was that he had a debt of about 4 million, and he told me he was sorry for bothering me, and I was left with an ambiguous reply saying that I didn't know if I liked them, leading to our break up.
We talked about the debt after we started dating.

He decided to go back to his parents' house to save money, and it became difficult to meet him, and he seemed exhausted because he had various problems, such as taking care of his grandfather he lives with and his parents being too busy with curfew.
Meanwhile, I was so frustrated that I couldn't meet him, and I blamed him.

Somehow I know things aren't going well with him, but I can't forget it, and I have a feeling that I want to support him while I'm alone. Maybe it's not my job, but...

I don't know how to sort out my feelings in the future. I'm sorry that the details of the consultation were not settled.

Please give me some advice on how to live a positive life in the future.

1 Zen Response

Pray for that person's happiness and health

I read it. You're shrouded in sorrow over breaking up with him. I'm guessing that you are feeling lonely and very painful.
Even if you say goodbye, your regrets will remain, right? Maybe they really didn't want to say goodbye. If so, let's forget everything, and even if you try to shake things off, I think they'll think of him and drive you in reverse. You've been away, so if you're just thinking about him now, I'd like you to go through your heart and pray that his current life and life are healthy.
It's not like I've completely broken my relationship with him. I think it is also important to pray for the happiness and health of those who are working hard beyond the distant sky. And I think that saves you from loneliness and loneliness and makes you grow as a human being.
I sincerely pray that you will be blessed with wonderful encounters in the future and that you will live a rich and happy life through that relationship. Please walk forward with hope for the rest of your life.