hasunoha

my fears

I'm afraid of dying

This started around July.

“Maybe cancer?” I thought
I did a lot of searches on Google along with symptoms

If you get good results (I don't think it's cancer)
It makes me feel really energetic and I can enjoy life

But bad results (maybe cancer, why don't you go to the hospital? etc.) comes out
Nausea, chills, slight fever, feeling of blood, almost falling down
I have symptoms such as

and now I'm so scared

The other day, I became afraid of dying (feeling like I'm going to die?)
If you search for “symptoms before death”

I arrived at a page called Yasuko's Face Fortune, Death Phase

On that page
“People a few months before they die have dark lines coming out of their mouths. It said something like “The person in this death phase I saw died 2 months later”

Last night... I had symptoms like those described
I'm 13 years old, so I don't have any nasolabial folds
but something,
Is there a black line running from the right end to your cheek? That's it

are you sure you're going to die? I don't want to die

It's not like I'm afraid of dying

However, it's scary to think about things after death
“I wonder what mom will do, she'll be lonely,” or something like that.

I also asked questions at Yahoo wisdom bag and Google's question corner.

So, “fishing, there's no way fortune telling or anything, it's because of my mind,” etc.
I was told a lot of things...

We ended up here
I'm asking a question from a bad source.

please.
I'm using my mom's account now
I'm still in 1st grade
I don't want to die
I want to live until I'm 80

Do monks believe in death phases?
Am I going to die?

4 Zen Responses

Let's talk to people around and do a proper investigation

Nice to meet you, I saw your consultation.

Dying is scary, isn't it? Me too. But alas our mortality rate is 100%. This is a fact and truth that cannot be avoided. I don't know when that will go wrong.

Even so, it's probably more likely that we die as we age, and it's probably our image that we can't even realize death.

Well, from around July, “maybe cancer?” It is said that fear of death has begun, but if that's the case, let's do a proper investigation and don't worry.

The first thing to do is talk to your mom. Let's talk about the symptoms in detail. So if you don't feel safe even if your mom says, “It's okay, don't worry,” go to the hospital and have them take a look.

There is so much information on the internet that you need to be careful. Be especially careful of sites that suspiciously raise anxiety. Trust the diagnosis of a doctor who is an expert without judging from the internet or your own uncertain information.

I don't believe in death phases, but I think it's possible for humans to see such things. This does not mean that the death phase has actually appeared; it means that even though there is no such thing, we can see something that doesn't exist out of anxiety or fear.

Don't talk to your mom or friends around you about the site and ask “is there a black line coming out of my mouth on my face?” Let's ask that. I'm sure it hasn't come out.

In any case, if you are worried and have specific symptoms, go to the hospital properly.

death = bad thing?

Even the Buddha had a heart that feared death. However, it is also true that we have been freed from that suffering.

Why are people afraid of death? It's a good thing to be born. An unfounded decision that dying is a bad thing. An unfounded fear of another world that no one has ever seen. Unfounded anxiety about losing the current state of affairs compared to the present.

There is no basis for everything. People who have never died expand their imagination more and more and become anxious. The world is impermanent. It's constantly changing, and the way it was before has disappeared without any problems, and I'm living only with the way it is now. There is no point in worrying about the place where you died and the future that is yet to come even though you are alive now. No one living today is even guaranteed tomorrow's life. That's not a negative thing. It's a matter of course. It's just as obvious that if you eat 5 pieces of your favorite karaage-kun, they'll all be gone. Everyone is bound to die even if they don't worry about it. Rather than being aware of that, we can live well in the present right in front of us. Live by keeping your feet on the ground. It's alive now.
There is salvation in such commonplace. A reality that is more important and clear than the world of imagination is right in front of us. Which one is salvation to believe in? Please think about it.

That's why I'm doing my best now

 Good evening.
Dying is scary, isn't it? It might make your mother sad.

First, it's “death phase.” It's like a face fortune telling.
I have seen the faces of many people who have passed away, and there are also many people who died without such a sign. Also, there are people who have remained in such a state since over 10 years ago and have been doing well. In other words, it can't be relied upon.
On the other hand, those who are alive will always die. You don't know if it's tomorrow or 80 years from now, but that time will come.

The important thing is that I want you to make sure that you don't end up wandering around saying “what should I do when I die” or just play back and playing with “because I'm going to die anyway.”
It means I want you to live hard with the intention of dying tomorrow and live with a plan for when you will live until 80 years from now.

If you passed away early, your mother would think, “That kid was laughing around before he died, and there were only such topics,” and “That kid died early, but they had lots of fun stories, and I have lots of memories. Which do you think is better than thinking “it must have been a short but fulfilling life”? I think the latter will help the mother recover faster. You should feel better at the end of your life with a sense of fulfillment.

So why don't you just think about when you're going to die, spend fulfilling days so that you don't have any regrets even if you die tomorrow, study properly now to prepare for the possibility of living a long time, and have lots of conversations with your mother to make lots of memories?

For now, let's get a proper health checkup, be careful not to get into a traffic accident, and do proper evacuation drills in case of a disaster.

I don't believe in death conditions at all! Personalities are something you create yourself.

First, you'll never die.
You'll never die, so don't worry.
is it something that accumulates when you die?
I don't believe in fortune telling or physiognomy at all.
What I believe is, starting with Amida,
Kannon Bosatsu, Seishi Bosatsu,
First, it's just the Buddha's side.
Thank you for your protection,
I'm not worried about anything.
I'm afraid of dying,
I believe it will make you live a long time.
If Kari called me sooner,
The world it is called is the Pure Land of Paradise, so
I'm not worried at all.
But I want to stay with my friends for a long time, so I don't want to die fast,
To Amita-sama, let them live a long time
I'm asking for it.
What is death phase? If you stay up all night for 3 days and spend time without eating or drinking, everyone will die. A long time ago, I was told that if I barely slept for a week, I would die.
Your death phase is up to you.
Please be aware of that.
Believe in the protection of Shinto and Buddha
I will never die,
Have a happy time,
Live until past 80,
I'm asking Amida to pick you up.
Chant it every day.
Chant it every day.
And every day in front of a mirror,
A smile creates a bright expression.
It will definitely make your face brighter and nicer.
Because you'll definitely have a good personality.
Physical appearance is not something that can be determined,
It's something I make myself.
I sincerely wish you happiness.
Don't worry about your mother.
I wish you and your family happiness too
I pray.
The reason I'm living well now and dying
Absolutely not, because I'm afraid
it's coming out.
your fear, fear, fear
It just showed up with an expression.
Try making a smile in front of a mirror.
It's okay to lie on purpose, so smile
Please make your best face.
because that's what you are.
I don't believe in fortune telling or physiognomy at all,
If you have a good expression, there's always something good about it. And I'll never die.
I want you not to die either,
I'm going to ask Amida,
Please ask Amida not to die either.
The request is simple.
Namu Amida Namamidabutsu and
Please chant it.
I will never let them die! Don't worry!
I've also seen a lot of people who have died since he's a retainer. The death phase is totally unreliable. Because I will never, never die. Don't worry.