How to deal with toxic parents
I wrote a letter showing my thoughts to my father, whom I had been on bad terms for three years due to something. I wrote that if there is no reply, I think there is no parent-child relationship, but there was no reply. However, I suddenly received a phone call from my mother and told that my father had passed away, and my mother read the letter and didn't show it to my father. The letter was received 2 months before his death, and although at that point he had an illness and was declared to have a life expectancy, it seems that he was doing well. My mother, who doesn't let me know anything, is creepy. I don't know how to treat my mother in the future. My mother has a personality that gets angry easily, and if she doesn't take care of her constantly, she quickly becomes moody.