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There is someone in my class who works with me on LINE.
That person imposes opinions on me. For example, talking about politics...
I still want to enjoy my high school life, but I don't really want to listen to that kind of story...
But they're pretty good friends, so I've been listening a little bit.

One day, when I looked at LINE, I received a group invitation from that person.
There were also people from another school who knew it.
These people seem to be in the same elementary school as their friends, so they are on good terms.
Well, it looks like fun, okay? I thought so I joined the group.

In the group, there were so many one-sided opinions from my friends that swirled in seconds.
Then, it became loud, so I was thinking about it for a while
“You're in high school right now, aren't you? Everyone is enjoying high school life, not that kind of thing!
Why are you acting like an adult like this? Does it appeal to the feeling of being able to study? seriously lol
Or rather, you're floating around in class.”
I said it too harshly. even so, that person's speed of speech hasn't changed
An outraged person unsubscribed that person.

After that, a friend will send you a personal LINE and invite them as many times as you like! Invite them! Said
It became troublesome, so I turned off notifications and went to sleep.

It's the next morning. The person who unsubscribed that friend invited that friend to join the group.
(I think I was probably scared to do it)
And I was the only one to get out of this group.
And disappear from this world on your personal LINE or Twitter
I was told that it was disgusting to touch the same cell phone (type) as you, and I thought this was too bad
I reported it to LINE and Twitter. However, that person is doing well because of the right to privacy or something.

When I opened LINE tonight, that person was the only one in the school group who unsubscribed me.
I think it's too bad. Also, I didn't like it a while ago, and I've been looking it up on Google, etc., but after all, I thought there are things I can do and things that aren't.

I don't want to talk to my school teachers, and I don't want to tell my parents either. (It's troublesome)

I taught them how to study and put them in this school, and I'm in my class, this person is interesting! It aggressively brought it forward... So, it's an improvement since getting on with it.
What should I do?
Excuse me for the long sentence at night

4 Zen Responses

Block it once and for all, I don't care! Let's go through ◎

Let's block it. Then you won't even see it.
LINE is a convenient communication tool, but letters don't have temperature. I can't tell you enough. So, the interpretations will be different, and don't hesitate. They just say too much, and it doesn't matter the time, and they are disrespectful to the other person. Group communication is good and bad, isn't it?

Invite them to the group, remove them... you have to be that concerned about people around you. Otherwise, it'll get a little complicated, like this one.

It's just infuriating to see such a rude person write. Then block it once and for all, I don't care! Let's go through ◎
Don't play with them and leave them alone.

Spend more time laughing than being angry.

To private high school student A

I saw your question. Answer: This is Nomura, a monk.
That's a terrible story. Getting on with the situation and getting over is...

Through, isn't it?

Please go through all of his remarks.
Not being dealt with by people is the hardest thing. I wonder if Mr. A needs Nakamatte-chan like that now ~, too bad. That's true even when you go out into society.

You don't have to take or look at his comments, tweets, or LINE messages that are in his mood.

The reason is simple.

That's because it's troublesome and useless.

It's a waste of time for Mr. A's precious high school life to be invaded by him.
You probably have other friends, so please have a meaningful high school life with friends you can spend a meaningful time with.
Spend more time laughing than being angry. Take good care of your time.

That's it.
The monk may have said some pretty awful things, though. There's no offense. If I think about Mr. A, I don't think there's any way that a selfish person who would fall for or betray an important friend will be forgiven. So please take good care of people that Mr. A also considers his friends. Please.

That's it. Gassho

I don't look down on people

Aren't you looking down on that friend? I felt that friend was looking down, even from the fact that the word jumpy was being used.
First, you have to notice that the fact that you evaluate your friends above or below in this way has become a problem that creates problems within you.

On top of that, let's leave the LINE story alone; I think it's okay for you to quit LINE, and I think it's important to actually have face-to-face conversations with friends. It's best to leave people who say bad things behind their backs if they're that kind of person.
But don't evaluate people based on likes and dislikes so you don't end up like them.

Hello.
The trouble with Line is troublesome, isn't it?

But since you also made a statement that hurt your partner, there's no point in being resented.
Is it impossible to apologize and make up, or break up the relationship by saying that there was no relationship? lol

There is a saying like this in the “Dharma Sutra”
“He cursed me, hit me
Broke me, took it from me
To people who have such obsessions
Resentment will never go away at last”

Living with grudges will only stain your own heart.
Don't get caught up in a grudge; if you stop being held back, your grudge will go away.
It's okay if you don't have friends in the classroom; if you can't find friends in such a small world, you should look more outside. The world is much, much bigger.

What I would like to ask
1. Don't be obsessed
2. Refrain from making statements or actions that hurt people
3. Smile only when it's tough

These are the only three.
You can't help being mean, let's be more flexible.

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