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How to find a mentor

I was asked the question “How to become a monk” the other day.
This is Maruko.
As you answered, I would like to find someone to mentor.
So, I'd like to ask you a question, how did you find your mentor?
I've heard a few stories about monks during zazen meditation, etc., but I can only think of dealing with monks when listening to puja.
I don't know where to start.
Sorry for the rudimentary question.
Please go ahead and look forward to your support.

4 Zen Responses

/maruko-sama.

First, you need to decide which denomination you want to become a monk or nun.
If a denomination you think this is decided there, we recommend that you contact the head office of that sect. Also, I think it would be a good idea to visit a temple of that denomination near you.

I think it would be best to start there... how about?

(Honestly) Please don't get bothered by this (laughs)

The previous answer seems to have misled me quite a bit, so this is a correction/addition.
There are few emojis and emoticons, so the nuance wasn't conveyed, and it seemed like they were taken badly ('`), but for the time being, I thought I was making them answer in a cheerful tone with comedy tension (^^).
I'm sorry that I made you feel bad. m (._.) m
First, I'm not saying that you're not good (>_<).
If you receive it by email, please read it again slowly in a cheerful atmosphere. Jokes and jokes are also properly written ('`)

It seems that the words “not even good” sounded sad,
Incidentally, in Zen Buddhism,
Even if they say, “You're not a good guy,”
“Yes, I'm always purring (5656) instead of Roku (6) σ (^_^;)”
“Idiot, that kind of thing isn't good either (^^) (lol)”
etc., the “exchange” greetings (← please search for Zen greetings) with the master and tonch in effect were made, and they are half full.
The teacher also says to his apprentice, “That guy is stupid, he can't do anything” (laughs)
This is also a compliment in a sense.
Do it well while praising those who seem likely to have prospects! I'm scolding and encouraging them.
Being scolded in the world of flower arrangement and tea ceremony is beautiful even in the world of flower arrangement and tea ceremony, such as saying “you really are stupid” with charm in the world of flower arrangement and tea ceremony.
Seen from a grouper's perspective, it may seem tough, but they're playing while refining each other.
Please understand that they have cultivated that kind of flexibility.
This is because it is easy for your heart to break and fluctuate easily if you deal directly with the words on your face and immediately become emotional.
I wanted them to take that level of sieving for granted.
If you're in the dojo, your reaction will also be heard.
Besides, I'm also looking at determination. Please don't worry about Maruko either (laughs)
Please take it a step further with an attitude that won't hurt you no matter what is said.
If you're in Tokyo, take a look at the following sanzen-kai. This Zen session has a kind teacher, and I don't think apprentices will take it, but I think it's worth more than that.
Nakanosakaue Joganji Tokyo Zen Association
Ebisu Fukushoji Sanzenkai

Yukigumo Ryusui

Maruko-sama

This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is a humble answer to the question.

Like a cloud that goes, like flowing water... an ascetic monk who visits countries in search of a master is called “cloud water,” but in order to climb to the top of a mountain that is beyond the strict path of enlightenment and nirvana, a definite leader, guide, and Sherpa, in other words, a master, is essential.

The other day, the adventurer Miura Yuichiro, who was the oldest person in the world to reach the summit of Mount Everest, was not the only person who was able to perform that feat, but it is also a feat only because of the cooperation and support of many Sherpa staff.

When aiming for the summit, there are several routes for this, but it is important for the master to lead the ascetic towards the state they should aim for while determining the roots, qualities, personality, etc. of the practitioner, so that the summit and those who know what the path will be like will lead them to the summit while giving accurate advice after considering various experiences, knowledge, and conditions.

Of course, in mountaineering challengers, if the Sherpa is incompetent, it is always necessary for the practitioner to make a careful assessment as to whether the master has certain abilities in order to reach the state they should aim for, so that it will lead to an immediate risk of life.

As there is a teaching in Tibetan Buddhism that “one should not simply accept the teacher's teachings with respect, and the goldsmiths should carefully examine the gold they handle by burning, cutting, and polishing it,” it is important to repeatedly examine the teacher's teachings critically and rationally, even if it is the teacher's teachings, and then practice those teachings after being firmly convinced That's going to happen.

As Maruko continues to advance what he has learned about Buddhism until now, for example, when he goes to listen to stories of monks who are active as specific goals (Setouchi Jakuchoshi, etc., as an example), and when he finally sees the path he should take as a monk, he is inquired about the head temple and nun dojo of each denomination as Mr. Mitsumi says, and while being carefully identified without being impatient, he searches for his mentor I think it would be nice if I could get used to it. However, I also know that it is essential to always be careful not to forget only the “Bodhi Heart.”

Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho

Even monks you can't meet

Hello Maruko.

It looks like they've been getting into quite a bit of trouble, so just a little bit more...

Go to zazen meditation, go listen to the Dharma, try copying sutras, go to a popular Zen temple, ask about the Tokyo Betsuin sect, read books by monks, and search websites.

Modern Japan is an information society, so if you look it up, you'll be able to manage it.
However, there are also temples that do not have an internet connection.
Please take a walk and stop by... but that's fine. It may seem strange at times, but that's it. I think it would be fine if we started at that point.
That's because we've been in a relationship for a long time. I know momentum is important, but don't overdo it..