Hello.
Is it about 10 days since I posted Nice to Meet You? Every time I asked you a question, I could see that little by little your heart was dilating, and I also felt that it was rewarding for me to answer them.
From now on, if there's anything you want to talk about, feel free to do so.
There is a children's program called “Shakin” in the morning on NHK Education. DID YOU KNOW?
There is a section called “Positive Knock” in that program (I haven't watched it recently, so maybe not now). Like Senbon Knock in baseball, “I overslept and couldn't eat breakfast!” or “The math is too difficult! What should I do?” Negative themes are presented one after another, such as “I went fishing but forgot my fishing rod.” In response, the performer said, “I overslept and couldn't eat breakfast! →Lunch can be eaten deliciously.” “The math is too difficult! What should I do? →Arithmetic is too difficult... if a child I like taught it to me, it would kill two birds with one stone!!” “I went fishing but I forgot my fishing rod → catch it with my bare hands!” It's a corner where you can quickly return something like that with a positive answer.
You should also try to respond positively to negative events with a “positive knock.”