This is my first boyfriend in my life.

I read it. I'm glad he was able to do it! I congratulate you.
From now on, let's continue to communicate a lot and get to know each other. There are a lot of differences between people. It's natural that they have different ways of thinking and values.
Also, on the contrary, I think we can find common ground with each other. Please respect and understand each other while acting like that.
Please continue to grow through various experiences through your relationship with him from now on. And please live a fulfilling day!

I read it.
Is it once a month even though 9 months have passed?
It's a little small isn't it? (^^;)
Is Puko-san even thinking about getting married to that person? How far has the conversation progressed?
I don't know if he's close or far away, but in my sense, at least I don't really feel the feeling of trying to move things forward quickly from him.
Of course, they probably have a sense of each other's circumstances, work relationships, and ways of dealing with each other, so I can't say unequivocally with just my feelings, but I'm also the same Alafo, so when I think about myself in Pooko-san's position, I can fully understand the feeling of being impatient as it is. I think it's a natural feeling.
Why don't you talk to him about future directions? Have we talked yet?
Strangely, don't be impatient, but time doesn't stop, so if Puko wants to move forward with her situation as quickly as possible, I have a feeling that it's okay to discuss the future direction (towards marriage if it's marriage) even when viewed from the time period of the relationship. Wouldn't it be better to calmly convey your feelings and confirm with each other what his heart thinks regardless of the pace at which you meet?
As someone of the same age, I pray behind the scenes for Puko-san's happiness.

Congratulations on that.
It doesn't matter if it's once a month or once every two months. When we meet, we have no choice but to take a close look at the other person and make a decision. And then we get to know each other ^-^
Please take your time and have a close relationship. Isn't it okay to relax without being impatient ^^

I'm glad I had my first boyfriend.
Pooko is a little dissatisfied with meeting her boyfriend on the 1st of the month.

I want to see you more.

Then, on the way home from our date, I was like, “If I do it next week, when are you free?” Please ask it.
The important thing is to listen when you get home.

But maybe he's someone with values I don't want to meet that much.
If that's the case, please keep up with his pace.
If the values of the number of times you met didn't match, then you didn't have a relationship.

How was it after being in a relationship for 9 months?

If you are a normal person with nothing, please actively invite them.

After all, the more times we meet, the better we get along, and the atmosphere gradually becomes where we can have deep conversations.

It's not a factor to worry about, like the countryside or age.

A new year has started.
Please make this year a good one.

Does the fact that we met at a matchmaking party mean he's also looking for a marriage partner?
If that's the case, it would be very disrespectful, but age is probably an important factor.
If he wants to get married and have children, there is a possibility that he is still wondering if it is better to look for a younger partner.
First, I think whether he wants kids or not is a pretty important factor.
If we want kids, it's because we're fighting against each other, age, and time.
If he wants to marry you and have children, I think it's better to get married as soon as possible.
Why don't you just listen to him?
There is a limit to time in life.
If he doesn't want to marry you, there will be an option for you to look for another man.