Travel abroad before getting married
I'm always indebted to you.
I have a question.
I'm now in a relationship with an older person that I had a crush on before. I'm a 24 year old woman. It's been almost a year since we met. We've only been dating for about 2 months.
He asked me about the curfew after we started, felt grateful, and apologized when he thought it was bad. They are people who are good at discussions
And he is a person who sincerely thought, “I want to be with this person.”
After 2 weeks of dating, I went abroad for about 5 months for work. I knew that before we started dating. The number of days we actually met was small, but they also emailed me, and they also called me for a long time during the holidays when the other person was few, so there is a sense of security.
Recently, we've been talking about marriage. I was worried that there might be a personality discrepancy, and he said, “Humans aren't perfect, but even if I can see something bad about 'name', I think I should cover it up.” I am a person I have never been able to trust, and I wanted to be together, and I felt like I was half in agreement with the marriage, saying “I understand.”
After that, when we came back from overseas, we talked about going on a trip with each other even before he went abroad for work. That's overseas. I myself told my parents it was fine at first. So, he wanted to go too, and I told him I would get a passport too.
However, recently, my parents have taken a detour to oppose going abroad. “If anything were to happen, women would be at a disadvantage. It's strange to go abroad before getting married. There will also be parts of marriage where you can see things you don't like and cannot be forgiven. But marriage promises, let alone a trip abroad, are impossible. Moreover, he has been transferred. I was told, “I still have a feeling that I will follow along.” After that, I felt sorry for him and felt sad about myself for believing in him.
Before we went abroad, we promised him that we would go say hello to each other's parents.
Also, when it comes to overseas, it's because it's his favorite place. Since we hadn't met until now, the two of us decided because we wanted to relax at his favorite place.
After all, even if we're good with each other, is it bad to travel abroad?
He's really looking forward to it, and I'm really sorry if he says no.