Do you confess to someone you like

Nice to meet you.
There is something I'm really worried about right now, and I would be happy if you could listen to it.

I've had a crush on a year ago.
I met him at a barbecue.
There was almost no conversation during the barbecue, but it just so happened that we were sent by car on the way home together.

It was strange at that time, but I thought I might get married to him somehow... Even though it was my first time meeting, I felt like I had known each other for a long time, and it was the first time someone felt so calm after talking.

After that, we exchanged lines and started playing from time to time, but when we played, we always included his male friend and there were 3 people. Even so, I was on the line every day.

At one point, I had time for him, so I decided to meet him, but somehow I felt better not to meet him.
However, the feeling that they wanted to meet was right, and trouble occurred, such as the cell phone running out of battery before they met, and the three of them met again even though they thought it would be better to stop after all.

While we were playing, strangely enough, I thought we might not see each other anymore.
That thought came true, and even though I sent him a line over and over again, they didn't come back at all.
I couldn't forget him no matter what, and I happened to need treatment, so I was examined at the medical facility where he worked.
When I meet him, I still calm down, and I think this is the only one.
This is my last treatment, so I'm wondering if I should confess in a letter.

Does this mean there is no connection? I'm wondering if it's better not to confess.
I'm already 30, so if I can't, I'd like to go next, but I can't forget him no matter what.

What should I do?
Thank you so much for reading.

4 Zen Responses

There is no point in worrying about the future, let's do something

Yuri

First, isn't it action?
it's okay not to confess, is it? Then you should go next.
that's all, isn't it? If you don't say it and you'll regret it forever, try saying it
Why don't you think about it in terms of results?
Either way, it's just moving forward. That's because no one feels bad when they say they like you.
Please do your best.

It's more refreshing to be dumped and regret it!

To Hitomi

do you have a pulse or not...
Is there a connection or not...
We don't understand at all,
A close relationship, some kind of relationship,
It stirred Hitomi's heart, so...

Rather than being dumped and regretting it
It's better to regret not confessing
I think I'll regret it until later.

I sincerely pray that Hitomi's wish will come true.

The result is second

Hello Hitomi.

My face turned red as I read it.
You like it, don't you?

If you have the same problem, let's confess.

Hit it and break it.

The shock when it doesn't work can be painful.
But if you think about it, even if you hit it and it really shatters, the results are the same as when you don't confess, right?

You're the only one who's worried, and maybe they won't break up.

Come on, be brave.

I wish you the best of luck.

Good relationships and achievements

I pray that your wishes will come true.
Even if it doesn't work, please come back. (^<^)
Buddhism is a teaching that saves people no matter what kind of suffering they face.

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