I want to retire

This is my fourth year as a nurse.
From April of last year, I quit the hospital where I had worked until now because I wanted to study and improve my skills, and moved to a large hospital in the city.
However, I am currently suffering so much from being busier than I had imagined and relationships, and I can only think that I want to quit. I don't like this job I love anymore either.
I thought it would be until the end of the fiscal year... but I feel that it's already limited. People around you have been weird lately too, haven't they? Being told that only simple things will cause you to wake up.
I think it is necessary as a member of society to work responsibly until the end of the fiscal year. But it's so hard that I can't help it every day.
Should I continue like this until the end of the fiscal year?
Also, how can I quit as soon as possible...

4 Zen Responses

If it's just impossible, isn't it okay to quit when

This is how it must be. I don't think that's the case.

If you're aiming to improve your skills, I wonder if being busy is unavoidable to some extent. There may be such a thing, but since I don't know what kind of problems they have when it comes to relationships, I honestly can't say anything.

However, if it's really painful, isn't it necessary to overdo it? Also, I think I can work at another hospital.

I had an idea, but it's a good day

Nice to meet you, Hanako.
This is Nakamura Taishaku from Kannon Temple, the temple of Dharma and ceiling paintings in Tokushima Prefecture.

Although she changed jobs to improve her skills as a nurse, things didn't go well and she is thinking about retiring.
I think, “It came up with an idea, but it's a good day.” I understand the feeling of wanting to meet deadlines at work, but it is patients who are in trouble because Hanako makes mistakes. Please make decisions as a professional nurse so that patients are not in trouble.

Each person has their own “just right.” Use this job change as food to find the perfect fit for Hanako. As a nurse, I pray that I will be able to smile at my patients again.

End of year and end of feelings

I hear that most women talk about their problems with work and romance. It certainly is.
I read Hanako's consultation, and I think it's natural to be worried. They have a sense of responsibility, so they're probably worried. If you're a self-centered, dry-minded person, you probably quit right away by putting sand on your back legs.

I myself am worried that I will force myself to work and that Hanako will not dislike her life, let alone her work. If you really think it will be at the end of the fiscal year, it might be a good idea to take a short break.

Either way, other than the public yardstick of the end of the fiscal year, know that your feelings also have “bad feelings,” and respecting them is not a bad thing at all. People who value themselves can care for others. Hanako-san can take good care of herself, too.

There are also cases where you can work easily if you decide to quit

If you're mentally ill, mistakes will increase, right?
Even if you intend to work hard until the end of the fiscal year, how about quickly saying “I will quit at the end of the fiscal year” to the workplace?
Occasionally, I hear people who volunteered to commit suicide say that they felt at ease once they decided to commit suicide.
As for work, once you have confirmed that you will “quit at the end of the fiscal year,” you will feel comfortable, and you may be able to endure it until about the end of the fiscal year.
On the contrary, they even fall in love with it, saying, “It's a pretty good hospital, and there were surprisingly fun parts.”
I've also changed jobs, so I thought that might be the case.
There is a shortage of nurses nationwide, so quickly communicating that you are quitting or want to quit is also effective for the convenience of hospital recruitment activities.
I hope you will be able to quit successfully.

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