About the interview
I have a job interview this month.
This is my first interview in my life, so I'm really nervous.
What should I do to relieve my tension even a little bit and do an interview with confidence?
I have a job interview this month.
This is my first interview in my life, so I'm really nervous.
What should I do to relieve my tension even a little bit and do an interview with confidence?
I'm not a job hunting interview professional, so I don't know the techniques, but I think nervousness is good. I used to be nervous at memorial services and when speaking to people. Of course, people around me warned me to fix it, but one teacher said, “It's good to be nervous. It's proof that you take that person seriously.” Being told that made me feel at ease, and I still can't fix my nervousness. How is this viewed by third parties? I've been told that, but they seem serious. To put it bluntly, it seems inflexible.
An interview is a matter of chance. Even when I was a college student, my part-time job was often turned down because I was a monk just by phone call, and I was turned down because I was a monk, and even when I was struggling with interviews, I failed, and there were a lot of delays, so I finally got accepted. In particular, the reason I was interviewed at my current place of employment is when they serve tea, “I'll get it.” “Thank you for the treat.” It seems that's because I said it. It's all about luck, isn't it?
So, keep trying until Ayumi can get a job without being discouraged by one or two failures. This is all I can say right now, but I think that problems with job hunting will come up again in the future, so be sure to talk to Hasunoha or someone you can rely on at that time, and do it carefully so as not to solve them alone.
Thank you Ayumi for your question.
It's an important employment test that determines the future, even in life.
It's not unreasonable to be nervous.
No matter how much preparation you do, there's probably no one who doesn't feel nervous.
I don't know how effective it is, but there are ways to relieve tension like magic.
For example, drink with the character “person” written on the palm of your hand.
(It seems that it's “overkill.”)
If it makes you feel better, I think it's okay to try it out.
However, that kind of thing is a matter of how to take care of it.
What is most effective is, after all, the fact that I did my best to prepare and take countermeasures
I think I'm confident.
I think there is also interview guidance from school teachers, and if you go to a bookstore for interview books
It's like a mountain.
But instead of being mischievously swayed by lots of information,
Do your best to express yourself to the fullest.
But even so, I don't know if I'll pass.
“Rest in peace with destiny and do our best in personnel affairs” (KIYOSAWA Mitsuyuki)
There is a word.
What you can do is make the greatest effort.
I'll leave the rest up to the Buddha's will.
There are various kinds of relationships.
Will they have a relationship at the end?
Please do your best to prepare for the employment exam.
The interview certainly makes you nervous, doesn't it? People are more persuasive when they give “specific examples.”
For example, what are your strengths? When asked, it was simply “brightness.” Rather than answering “it's customer service,” it's better to add an episode that proves why brightness and customer service are strengths.
“I often get compliments on my smile from people around me, and it always makes me smile because I'm happy.”
“I like doing my best for others so much that it's called a sukusuke. That's why I chose this job,” etc.
It's OK if you bite a little bit, good luck!
As an interviewer for young Osho who comes up to the ascetic dojo (called a guest worker), I'll talk to Tange, who has experience.
I don't know if the interviewers at that company are looking for ❝ what ❞ from new hires, including you.
I don't think that much importance is given to whether or not you're nervous.
On the other hand, it is Deki Sugi-chan who is too used to the world and has zero sense of tension, and when it comes to whether she can make a good impression, there are cases where this is not the case.
I think there are cases where people aren't hired because “this kid doesn't seem to be honest, so he doesn't seem to work according to the company's instructions.”
Even in the Buddhist industry, people like that lack honesty, so they seem like they're listening to this story and aren't listening; they're doing too much for themselves, so I'd rather pass them down.
It can also be said that whether or not you get hired depends on the interviewer you hire, but I think all you need to do is tell them your true self as it is.
Please try to convey the feeling that you want to be good for that company.
That's because I'm watching humans.
I'll write what I know about you.
First, you can actively and honestly ask questions about what you want to know and what you're worried about. This “honesty” comes from the ease of being on the internet, but even so, asking questions means “exposing yourself,” so it's something you can't do without courage.
And that means you have plenty of allies. There have been 25 responses to the questions so far. Everyone is on your side. By asking questions, we learn, “There are people like this in the world.”
Furthermore, there are even more people who feel that they “heard something good” in that exchange. If you didn't gather up the courage to ask questions, the feeling of “I heard a thank you” wouldn't have occurred that much. how is it? Your courage and honesty have produced such results.
Finally, they wrote “I like monks” on their public profile. Not limited to boys, I think being able to say “I like something” makes them that happy. Also, the feeling of “liking” has the power to surpass logic. Today's middle school students say, “I don't have anything I like. There are a lot of kids who say, “Really, nothing.” No matter what the subject is, I think liking is linked to the power to live. It means you have that power.
I'm guessing that there aren't that many people around you who use this hasunoha. Maybe
It may be used to differentiate yourself from others at the interview site. In that case, the point is whether or not you can say “what you felt” in your own words.