A fourth son was born in March.
I was ignorant, but I named him Shota.
I later learned that Futoshi represented the eldest son, and I regret it.
I can't get along with my older son, Sanjita.
Do you think people around you are strange?
I'm uneasy because it's written on the internet that misfortune will happen to the older child due to the wrong order.
Every day my head is full of this and I'm shocked when I search only on my cell phone.
Nice to meet you. My name is Honda Seihiro.
Children's names are really bothersome, aren't they? I was also very worried about the name. Even after I put it on, I was still skeptical about whether this name was really good.
Well, I think the name Shota is a very good name. Matsuda Shota is such a wonderful actor. Maybe I'm a little envious that someone has the same name as someone like that. However, if Matsuda Shota causes a scandal, he may be bullied because they have the same name. No one knows when or where disaster will befall them.
With that in mind, even if misfortune occurs because the character “thick” is attached, or even if misfortune occurs without any warning, there is one thing to do. Make an effort so that children can live a happy life. That's all. So it's fine.
Canaries are obsessed with the letter bold and are uneasy, but there must be many other things that make them uneasy. Right now, your child is healthy, so you may be worried about the name, but if this gets sick, the anxiety that comes from the name will probably disappear.
Right now, I think I'm blaming myself for inadvertently adding the letter “thick.” What we should reflect on here is that we have neglected the preparations we should do as parents. If that's the case, what you should do in the future is to prepare properly and interact with children. Once that is done, Shota-kun will become an adult, and when naming children, I think he will be able to laugh and tell them that the letter “Futoshi” represents the eldest son.
Becoming “evil” in Buddhism is an act of trying to cause disadvantage. Canaries were not named in an attempt to disadvantage children, so it's not a crime. I want you to feel safe and happy with your child. Thank you for your support.
Honda Kiyohiro
Adding weight to the eldest son is a thing of the past.
Also, it is a superstition that misfortune happens to older children.
So don't worry about it.
Thick means thick, big, wide, rich, doesn't it?
As the name suggests, it would be nice if they grew up to be a rich child with growth and a big heart.
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Shota is a nice name, isn't it?
I wonder what it is? There seems to be a tendency for questions like this to increase in the summer... (lol)
Around this time last year, people with similar concerns came to ask questions.
So I thought I'd read a good answer... so I looked for it.
I found it!
https://hasunoha.jp/questions/10925
The answers here were excellent, so I'll introduce them.
There's nothing to worry about.
Raising children may be difficult, but please do your best.
If you search for the character thick, the character source is “tai,” and you are at ease and relaxed. “Sho” was about playing, and looking back. Both have good meanings, and when interpreted in combination, I feel relaxed and look back. In other words, doesn't it mean to think carefully and learn from experience?
I think it's a very nice name that combines calm and activity. Please be confident, call them names, and nurture them well. Shota-kun also becomes uneasy when his mother is taking good care of him. I think it will probably be possible to turn it into a funny story by the time the name becomes familiar.
Please look at your kids rather than searching the internet.