A lover I met on the internet

It's a fact that after being in a relationship, I learned something I hadn't known for 2 years.
How shocking was that...
I'm sorry for your understanding.

It's against the rules to check the cell phone, wallet, driver's license, etc. of the person you're dating, but in this case, I don't think it's your fault.

I want to know the other person's feelings.
Nuru-san herself would be afraid to listen to it.

Still, I want to know the truth about why they hid it.

Since I saw my driver's license without permission, there is a possibility that the other party will blame you in reverse.
But why don't you tell them that they understood everything and then looked straight at the driver's license?

And please ask him calmly.
Why did they hide it?
They'll tell you something.
It's probably going to show some kind of attitude.

It is up to you to be judged by your responses and actions.

The fact that the name, address, and date of birth were hidden is a fact.
It's a fact that can't be changed.

The fact that it was hidden for 2 years was not only in a bad sense, but there may have been excessive circumstances.
The lie has already been revealed.
You know the truth.

If he were a normal person, I think that continuing to lie would have been a considerable burden on his heart.
Please tell him just the way he is, even in the sense that I'll make him feel comfortable.

“They didn't tell me my personal information from the beginning of our relationship, and even when I asked them to show me my driver's license, they didn't show it to me.”
I should have noticed it at this point.

“I stole my driver's license for the first time while I was sleeping, and the description of my name, date of birth, and where I live was completely different...”
Something like that, isn't it?
The fact that you didn't tell me anything means that there is something inconvenient when the other party finds out.

” I want to know the truth from the person's own mouth. I also want to know the opponent's purpose clearly,”
You'd better stop it. What do you want to do when you hear that?

If the man in question opens up again and doesn't go backwards, he will surely take it back into you with his clever words. You won't want to think that your costs up until now have been wasted due to the huge amount of effort, time, money, etc. you have invested up until now, so you will forcibly convince yourself, and you will continue to be deceived. This mentality is called “sunk cost.”

If you don't intend to beat them up by taking alimony from you or ruining your partner's life, I recommend fading out like this.
In this day and age, any way you meet someone may be fine, but let's stop sneaking around on men who don't reveal their true identity.

It's certainly not someone you should definitely call a “lover.”
You want a lover.
It was taken in there.
Be careful when dating online.
People can become disillusioned and encounter the truth.
I think we should break up the relationship right away.
A lying bastard who started with a lie will lie for the rest of his life.
Even when viewed as the same man, he's totally out.
You might think it's unnecessary, but let's break up right away and seek encounters by means other than the internet.

Hello, Nuru-san.

Love is blind. I don't think I want to deny the self I've loved up until now, but I'm out when I'm dating and haven't revealed my identity. There's no point in asking the other person for facts. That's because they originally dated with the intention of deceiving them. Don't be swayed by love like that. That's exactly what you need to have the power to cut fast.
The internet is a virtual world. If you want to bring it to the real world, you need to make careful decisions.
Please break up quickly and aim for a new love after reflecting on your current relationship. If you're thinking about starting a new love, this heartbreak should be an important experience for your future love.

If you always talk to me, I will support you. Good luck! Gassho

※Answer again

I think this situation is more dangerous than Nuru thought.
If you ask questions and run away without knowing your identity, there is a possibility that you won't be able to catch them later. Then, after that, revenge porn, your photos and videos could be streamed online. That's the kind of person he is. If it goes online, it will be impossible to delete it.

The next time you meet, please be surprised and meet with an older man you can trust, but it costs money, but be present with a lawyer. Therefore, insist that your identity be revealed and that you sue for fraud, and collect the photos and videos along with the settlement money. Please be sure to keep a copy of your car number, license, face photo, etc. so that you cannot escape because you don't know your identity.

Here are some female lawyers that are easy to talk to if the lawyer doesn't know anyone. Please respond carefully so as not to be in an unfavorable situation for you.

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