Men are dirty creatures

Every night, when it's this time, my anger at men doesn't subside, and it's painful, so let me talk to him about it.

I think men are dirty creatures.
The compliments given by men are just meant to be brought into sex, and they are not meant to be real,
Even if we try to get close to it, women think they'll run out of sex on the other side.

There are only men like that.
I often receive praise from people around me who are good-natured and kind, and men and women (I guess there are people around me), treat such a creature called a man gently, remember what the other person likes and what they don't like, even if the other person suddenly gets in a bad mood, so treat them after thinking about the other person's background, look at the other person's attitude and be careful because it's a pity to say something speculative... I was thinking about how to do it.
However, the man I'm dealing with just invited me late at night saying “I wonder if I can drink at your house now,” and he just invited him the night before the day off. I only think about physical relationships and don't try to know who I am. Anyway, they think of me as the second one, or the woman you can play with in a jiffy. I love my partner, and I want to get to know them.

I've made an effort, and men only see me as a tool for sex, so I don't need to be kind to men anymore either.
Recently, there are times when I get the urge to punch a man walking down the street from one end, and it's unavoidable that a man just sits in the seat next to him at restaurants, etc., and blood rises on his head. It's frustrating. I don't feel comfortable.

What should I do so that men don't lick me?
Also, how should we deal with such a creature called a stupid man? I don't want a simple monkey who can't control my sexual desire to treat me as a sex tool.
What can you do to become someone you think men are afraid of?

4 Zen Responses

Ignore the boring man and go to Buddha's path

That's a shame. I can't believe there are only men like that around. As you said, there are a lot of gay men who only think about SEX. So I'm still single too.
You don't have to make them think they have a lot of fears. Ignore boring guys. Please follow your own path. If your character tastings are solid, there's nothing to be afraid of about men.
Let's go to a temple and think carefully in front of the Buddha.
Please participate in temple events and face the Buddha.
Men are boring. The people who serve there, regardless of gender, have a good way of thinking.
Among them, there are many men who can have adult conversations without SEX.
If there aren't any good temples nearby, go to the Shikoku Pilgrimage.
There must be a moment where you feel relieved to be wrapped up by the master. The pilgrim companions I met there are comrades.
There may be strange men once in a while, but there are very few of them. Let's ignore it.

Why don't you find the target person?

Who among you is a famous person who seems to be “afraid” of men?
Why don't you try to find someone you have specific goals for?

Basically, I recommend becoming a mentally stable person who is able to control worries such as greed, anger, laziness, and pride.
That way, your own stress will be reduced, and I think you will be respected by people around you.
Please keep in mind every day that “greed, anger, laziness, and pride are causes of trouble and suffering.”

Men go from pin to edge too (lol)

Hello Yuyu.

The evaluation of men is so low that it makes me bow my head (laughs). There are dumb men in the world who are only interested in pleasurable sex, but that's not all; there are also many men living their dreams (laughs). It's just fine if you don't date guys who think your level is low. Yuyu has a wonderful personality that can be adapted to people, so let's use that power to select men as well. If you take it all, it can also be stressful.

Denying everything also narrows my own mental capacity. Men also have everything from pins to women. Refine your mind by interacting with people who are right for you. One more thing, raising a man of your choice is also a smart woman's way of life. All men are made by women hurting their stomachs, so it's the greatest ability a man can't do.

Gassho

Are you a fearful person?
Well, for example, is this a person who can moderately control reason and emotions, is wise, has compassion, moderately suppresses worries, has self-interest and other minds, and is both strict and kind.
However, in terms of Buddhism, being dirty means being covered in worry, and being pure means that worries have been suppressed.
Anger is born from the three poisons of greed, anger, and foolishness, and for example, greed such as greed for sex, things, money, etc., anger, resentment, or anger, and failure to see or judge things correctly.
Therefore, seeking your body without love and only for desire is an affliction called sexual greed, and it is certainly a dirty act.
Try not to go out with people like that, or just keep your relationships superficial.
However, similarly, anger against the opposite sex is also an affliction called anger, and it is dirty.
So, I hope that the stains of anger and anguish will be washed clean with forgiveness water and that you will return to your original pure self.

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