Why are men so stupid

　I thought it wouldn't be strange if there was a past quality from “a man who had a hard time due to words and actions from women in the past,” called “why are women so stupid.” I haven't looked it up, but...
Please excuse my sudden harsh answers.
I'm a man and I don't know exactly how women feel. Even though they aren't that different, I think there are parts that we can't understand each other at all.
What you want to say is accurately “why do so many men cause sexual problems?”
I'm not an expert in brain science, so I can't say anything, but in fact, I don't think it can be denied that men have sexual impulses against women. Sexual impulses are “an essential desire to leave one's own offspring” or “one of the signs of aggression against one's partner that male sex has”... after all, it is an act caused by instincts and worries. That's why high priests have also been struggling with this problem since ancient times.
As a practical matter, sexual impulses without romantic feelings are born where the other person's human rights are ignored. If you know your partner well, have affection, and develop a sense of respect, you think “let's stop what the other person doesn't like and act in a way that is liked by the other person” before sexual desire. This is probably instinct.
What is effective in changing men's attitudes towards themselves is “for you to be a wonderful, wonderful woman, and to be respected regardless of gender.”
Now, the “stupid man” I've run into you until now (unfortunately it exists... I understand it too. They're the same man... anyway, I apologize for that), so let's completely forget about that) and look for “good guys” from now on.
Actually, there are as many “good guys” as there are “stupid guys.” It's just that they haven't been noticed because of the way it looks.
Let's attract such a “good man.”
Of course, let's search for a “good man” among men who fall in love with your “charm”... thoughts, knowledge, actions, etc., not someone who only depends on how you look.
First, why don't you stop taking a fixed, biased view of men... no one feels good about being looked down upon. It's definitely because men and women are the same people.
When you change the way you look at men, the way men look at you also changes.
Now, let's live our lives to the fullest with the support of the Buddha... let's improve ourselves without being lazy...

I think that's true. It's outrageous that a man with a wife plays with a woman's heart to have an affair, let alone get pregnant. A man's sexual desire is something he can't control, even if he knows it with his head. That's one of the stupidest parts of a man.
Women are always victims. Even if they know a man who has a wife or wife, they share a pillow, and even if they know they will hurt their partner's wife or child, they fall asleep due to the man's sexual desire. That's why I'm tempted by such a bad man, so I'm already brainwashed at that time and can only think about myself. Love is an illusion, so women who are embraced by heinous and outrageous men who abuse such romantic feelings and take advantage of women are complete victims, and they don't have to worry about the other family's misfortunes at all.
If men hit women with sexual desire because they're stressed, they're just like monkeys. Women, on the other hand, seek men whether they have children or play for reasons full of love, “because they were lonely” or “because they wanted warmth.” Even in places like this, you can see how flawed men are.

With reason, men should be able to control their sexual desires. Of course, there are only a few men who indulge in that kind of sexual desire and have affairs or make sex friends, but for you, those guys probably have an image of all men. The theory is that if you find one cockroach, there will be 100 in the house. At any rate, on behalf of all men, I apologize.

On the other hand, women should not have a romantic relationship with such a man if they have reason... they have more compassion and love than men and are clumsy, so it's unavoidable for them to have an affair that hurts their partner's family. Women aren't bad.

To avoid being fooled by such bad men, by all means, “don't sleep even though you're not in a relationship,” “don't sleep with someone who has children,” and “take proper birth control.”
I would like you to keep the above in mind.

I often get involved with people who become single mothers due to my work.
Certainly, there are many men who cannot control their sexual desires.
However, even among women, there are people like that.
There are also people who have been pregnant many times and are dealing with a different man every time.

Did you feel bad about something? I know stupid men and I know stupid women. Yo, gender has nothing to do with idiots.
The way of thinking, the way of being compassionate, what kind of relationships, what kind of environment were you in... Various elements are intertwined, and they are divided into what Yuyu calls an “idiot” and those who aren't.
However, the man Yuyu talks about isn't stupid, he's just a sad person. I myself was cheated on when I was young, and I actually got married... I experienced a lot of things. But I think I'm the idiot.
I'm stupid for not seeing it through. It wasn't a very good man that I met when I thought “anyone else is fine” or “older rich people are good,” but I wasn't a good woman at that time either. I also read the previous question, but why don't you look back at yourself to see why you met such a stupid man? It may have been a painful feeling that you can only despise men.
Even though that is the case with the people you meet now, if you change your perspective slightly, the men you will meet in the future may be different.
When I meet a man who is really “not stupid,” if Yuyu's way of thinking isn't a little calm, men will now think of her as a “poor woman.”
People criticize people other than themselves (different ways of thinking, etc.). However, in Buddhism, “people are people, and I am myself. But I hear, “I am the same as others.” Before you blame someone, think about yourself first. In Buddhism, knowing yourself without being able to blame others is a form of Buddhism.
It's sad to hide the accusations against yourself and only blame men.
Women talk about gender equality. Companies also create Ladies' Day and lift women up.
While knowing that men are given preferential treatment in this way, they harshly say “you're a man, so be firm” about men's weaknesses and hardships. The story was quite distorted, but I don't like being told “because I'm a woman,” so there's a sense of incongruity with being called “a man.”
The bottom line is that some men make women unhappy, and there are women who make men unhappy. It's a question of human nature, not gender.