I think having sex friends is a loss.

I wonder if that's fine.
What to look for in sex. It depends on the person.
If you throw your body out in exchange for money or stuff, then if you're satisfied with that, then a relationship has been established, right?
Humans look for something in a partner or thing and find value in it. There are indescribable values, and there are also forms of free love.

Laws are standards for maintaining order in a country and human society. Something that is socially coercive.
Also, it's okay for people's minds and thoughts to be contradictory, and there are no answers.

I wonder if your friends with benefits and lover relationships were a loss as a result...

It would be nice if there was such an encounter that would satisfy the mind and body.

I read it.
There may also be relationships that are momentarily divided, and I think there is also a financial relationship.
There has been such a history since the beginning.
There are times when this has been recognized in the times, and it will become legal as society changes.

Looking at recent social trends, infidelity has been openly made public, and mass media pursuit has also become excessive.

What I can say is that words and actions that hurt people are still sins.
Words and actions that cause harm to people and break relationships and family relationships for the sake of one's own desires are foolish and evil acts.
You will naturally be rewarded for it.
I also think it's unavoidable in the human world for such things to happen.
If so, I think I should sincerely reflect on the crimes I have committed, sincerely repent, and apologize to those who have hurt them in good faith.

There's no point in talking about profit and loss in a romantic relationship. If you think it's a loss, it's probably not true love because it's a sign of your own selfishness. I think it's a matter of ending that relationship as soon as possible or breaking it up.

Nonetheless, in the relationships between people, I would like you to take care of your own mind and body first. It's my mind, body, and life that I've been given so limited. Please take care of yourself and take good care of your connections with those you have a relationship with.

I sincerely pray that you will live a healthy, rich, and sincerely happy life in a wonderful relationship from the bottom of your heart.

There must have been a time when prostitution was legal in Japan.
Then, from a certain point on, the Japanese “made a decision” to ban prostitution.
I think the Japanese seniors made the decision based on their various experiences.
Of course, I also don't think that what my seniors decided was always correct.
However, most of the people involved in prostitution are probably young people.
There are things in life that you don't notice when you're young, but you'll regret it later.
I think my seniors, based on that kind of experience, decided that it would be better to ban it.

Natsu-sama

This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is my humble answer to the question.

Buddhism aims for true peace of mind and comfort without being influenced by secular profit and loss accounts, away from the Eight Laws of the World (profit, loss, praise, blame, honor, slander, ease, suffering).

According to a bad causal relationship (cause and condition), it is a bad result, and according to a good causal relationship, it is a good result.

Simply, if it is the result of hesitation and suffering, then after all, it means that it is not a very good causal relationship.

Buddhism is the teaching that Buddha preached in order to aim for results that lead away from hesitation and suffering.

By all means, I hope you will be more interested in Buddhism, and that it will be an opportunity for you to learn and practice.

Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho

Hello Natsu.

Doesn't Natsu have sex with the people she loves? Also, don't you care at all if your loved one has sex with a different woman? It's strange.

Sex is a fundamental reproductive behavior in animals where men and women with different genes make genes that increase survival rates and leave offspring. Instincts can only be controlled by simple action, so they give sex the pleasure called pleasure and encourage people to have sex.
Humans have created social rules so that the probability of leaving offspring is even higher than instinctive sex behavior. Currently, people who adopt monogamy for sex and raise children have a greater chance of living, so many human societies have adopted it. Also, prostitution involving an unspecified number of people has a very large risk, so it is not permitted. The risks are very clear: pregnancy, illness, and security.

Sex can't always be contraceptive. Many people fail, have unwanted pregnancies, and sometimes have forced abortions. In Japan, that number is said to be 200,000. If a fetus has human rights, the number one murder is abortion.

The second one is illness. Since sex involves contact with parts of internal organs with weak resistance as living organisms, pathogens target there and become infected. Prostitution increases its risk. This is because prostitutes always have sex with an unspecified number of other people, so the probability of being infected increases. We are trying to increase infections by lengthening the incubation period so that pathogens are not discovered. Many treatments are available for venereal diseases, including AIDS, but it is extremely difficult to completely cure them. Also, recently, due to internationalization, foreigners with high infection rates use Japanese customs, so the number of patients with venereal diseases is rapidly increasing.

Third, customs will always be anglaized, and gangsters will enter there, and security will deteriorate. In the balance between human desires and security, which cannot be done without Japan, they have created and suppressed the Wind and Trade Act. You say prostitution is easy, but since the interests of gangsters are involved, it is dangerous for you if caught by a gangster group.

Since there are three of them, they are not recognized in Japan. But if you want to hide, it means there's nothing the government can do. It is up to you whether or not to take advantage of these three risks and engage in prostitution.

Gassho

　① I think human trafficking has become a point of contention, but what is the line drawn?
I think the human world is made up of human trafficking. School recommendations, scholarships. Sports trades and drafts. apprenticeship relationship. Marriage arrangements, etc. Depending on how you perceive it, it is human trafficking without sexual intercourse. There are probably good human trafficking and bad human trafficking in the world, and what you do is bad human trafficking. I think it's morally bad, but the law is probably at the last minute. I checked with an expert and if I haven't broken the law, I'm not 100% bad. Please enjoy it freely to the extent that you don't break the law.
However, I don't think it was necessary for you to write about others here. I think there's something embarrassing about you when it comes to writing about others. If your conscience hurts, stop what you are doing now. If you get mean by what I said, it's proof that you're suffering. Please stop it immediately.
The first thing to do is be honest with your feelings.
② Marriage is not the end of happiness. The world says that marriage is the conclusion of happiness. There are many episodes of dramas, novels, and comics after getting married. I don't think so. The word “happy” itself makes people unhappy. It's a happiness ranking, isn't it? If a monk preaches marriage as being happy, it's like selling a fight to the Buddha, so I don't say that. Life is a state where there is a hole in the bottom of the boat. If you don't take out the water, it will sink, so you can pump water into a bucket, throw it away, and live. Can happiness be solved there? Be more aware that extra suffering is a waste.
③ Finally, I am not against polygamy or polygamy. If you love them equally and are financially independent, they should also be recognized in Japan.
I don't know how far you've understood what I'm saying, but I'm praying for a life where you won't suffer from unnecessary things. We clap hands.