Is it better to be loved than to love?

Can you marry someone who makes you feel “tough”?

Get to know each other.

I'm worried, so the word tough also comes up. Isn't the word wasteful also a wonderful feeling?

Please say that I want to get to know you better.

Whether you're in a relationship or marriage, it's normal to fight, misunderstand, don't understand each other, and don't like it.

Love, be loved, love each other. It's important to properly convey your feelings and thoughts.

Don't worry, you must be a wonderful woman.

Timing is also important when it comes to love.

They say that really falling in love with someone is disappearing at all. My wife told me about it.

Good evening.

I think now is the only time, oh well,
Maybe I was doing something similar when I was in my 20s.
I meant to convey my feelings, but I didn't understand that it was supposed to convey hardship to the other person...
If you push it, it will pull away.

I don't understand how you feel,
Hee-san asked me what she cherishes. It would be nice if I felt like I was able to play catch for a proper conversation...

The “equality” necessary in thinking about marriage is not an assertion of rights or self, even if the roles of the loving side and the loved side are shared,
It means we have a relationship where we can follow up on each other's failures.
Apart from that, we don't have to have the same values, so we know what we value for each other, and I'm thankful that we can take care of each other so as not to interfere with that.

I think Hee-san's sense of building slowly even if you don't force yourself to match your opponent is important.

I think marriage is a matter of timing.
I hope you have a good relationship.

Would this person suit me...?
Wouldn't it be better to think of this question as a sense of repulsion?
Please take a look back at people who are in a more smooth relationship.
At least they probably don't have questions like yours.
In other words, something you feel resistant to.
Wouldn't it be nice to stick to that intuition?
Humans only need what they own.
When it comes to what I own, everything I have is a gift.
People who feel like the moon changes from the time you start to change their ideals and you when they come together.
This is because my ideal vision is too strong and they won't look at you.
If you don't want anything from your partner, you know you just have to live.
If you do that, you'll be able to see someone who really is right for you.
Even if they get married in Japan now, the financial strength and humanity of the husband who can support their children are also being questioned.
No matter how good Bon Bon Bon is, I think it's better for people who let themselves live longer and more carefree. (^<^) The decision is yours [true truth/true intention].

It seems like their hearts don't overlap. I don't know the future though.
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Certainly, it is explained in sutras that women are happier when they are loved. (Love and respect for the public)
Equal relationships (metamorphic boys) are built after marriage.
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This world is called the Shaba World, a world where you can endure it. If you get married because you want to be happy, you blame each other when things are difficult, and you are far from happy.
On the other hand, if you get married because you both want to overcome the difficult and sad things in your life with this person, you can accumulate happiness every time you overcome a barrier.
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It is only because they are two people who have overcome the barriers of hardship that have stood in their way over and over again while being close to each other, that they can have an equal relationship.