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Fortune telling results

My friend said she wanted to go the other day and went for my fortune telling.
The result at that time was “run away from him softly and you can't cure him because you're not an expert.” I was told.
What the fortune teller said was almost true, so I can't believe it at all!! I can't even feel uncomfortable...
I didn't notice it at first, but when I quickly get angry at little things and get so angry that I think I have multiple personalities, I can't get my hands on it.
Your face and way of speaking will change like a completely different person.
It is said that they have been in a relationship with before, and they have even raised their hands to women. However, if you don't have a memory of when you're angry...
If I didn't want to raise my hand, there were times when I unknowingly hurt my arm with a cutter or punched myself in the face to the fullest. I got kicked in the front leg too.
I'm extremely sorry that there is always such a thing.
But since I love him, I don't want to run away softly, I want to get better together.
I'm not going to believe the fortune telling results, but when he starts getting angry, the fortune teller's words go through my head.
He is extremely sensitive, and his expression seems to come out easily in anger.
It's not a common story related to DV, and there seems to be a strong point where people assume childhood bullying or that they don't receive love from parents.
These days, they aren't as good as normal people, but they're getting angry less often.
Is there any way I can save his heart?
Should I trust my fortune teller's words?

4 Zen Responses

The worse fortune-telling you are, the more you should believe

Fortune telling is the best way to keep from falling.
Here's a guide.
To run away means to create an escape route in your mind. Straight love can be a burden for him who is sensitive. I'm saying that straight love can't fix it.
You can cure him.
There is still a need to let go of strength when it comes to getting involved with him, and if you treat him like a father or mother without fully showing what you love, good results will come out.
I think that's where the fortune teller's real intention lies.

Hit or hit gag, hit not hit gag

Both I and the previous chief priest do what is commonly called fortune telling.

I will repair it with the help of a certain power.

Statistics and counseling will also be carried out at the same time, so there is no way that it will not work.

I might say the same thing.

He has a disease called dissociative identity disorder DID.

Is it a disease, or is the shape of the soul a function of the brain?

When you have other personalities, you should have dissociative amnesia and no memory at all.

The human brain has enough capacity, or capacity, to live the lives of several people at the same time.

There are people with this characteristic in my family, but I don't think it's an illness, and there were also people who talked about their previous memories of their lives and the same soul.
The person himself knew the times and places in detail that he had no way of knowing, and he was not the personality that created it.

Even as it is, I don't think there are any problems, but there must be some kind of trigger or keyword for getting into that state.

It may be different from treatment, but why don't you try undergoing a medical examination once?

that's not the problem...

Let's forget everything first and think from scratch.
They're probably just saying, “People who are in a state of mind that hurts people shouldn't go in a relationship because they have a fear of hurting their dating partner.”
Let's calm down. Break up normally. before it becomes an obstacle.
You're not a good person either.
I say it's because I love him, and I'll say it clearly for you, but you should put the children who will be born during that time first.
The problem is that you're trying to be a good person. Because of that, the root of the problem has become invisible.
Nor are you responsible for fixing that person's MAD.
There are always good people, and in the end, there are people who are perfect and have a hard time.
I think you'd better not do that.
This is because he should cure his illness himself, not yours.
If I had the will to cure it, long ago! He's probably facing himself.
Still, if you like him, it's a good idea to stay with him. However, if they choose that one, I don't know the rest.
If you eventually get married and have children, the most disastrous thing is the child and you. One day, that violent state of mind will hit your family. Because society is tougher. Zero guarantees as to whether he can stand it.
If I were in his position, I would face my own mental illness before love rather than work, and heal until I am completely cured.
It's the adult's responsibility.
Break up with you and completely get your life back.
What's more, they don't date in such a state.
Loving someone is the exact opposite of hitting them. This is because words and actions are contradictory lies.
Everyone is fooled by words. You're actually being kicked.
In what part of the world do people kick their forelegs while saying “I love you”? He should wake up, notice the seriousness of the matter, withdraw from love, and work to face his illness himself.
It's not about abandoning him or anything; it's about when it will explode first, so please put your own safety first and don't make your parents cry.
If he doesn't feel like changing, let's break up right away so as not to stimulate him.

If you don't have illusions...

“I'll change him one day. I'll change it with my love.” It seems like the principle of couples is that relationships don't usually go well. I think that's probably because humans can only change themselves. However, I think it would be great if you could continue to love him just the way he is. If you don't have the illusion that “it will change someday”... Don't you have fantasies about changing yourself? Can we keep loving him just the way he is? Just ask yourself that. Only you can give the answers.