What is the value of “women”?
I'm indebted to you.
There are times when I have doubts or suspicions about the opinions of the social minister about the value for “women.”
I'm currently single and have never had a lover, and I like being immersed in painting in private. Also, recently, the marriage and childbirth rush continues around me. What is often said in such circumstances is, “Why don't you get a boyfriend? Don't you have any desire to get married? ' That means yes.
I definitely have to get a boyfriend, especially now! I have to get married! I don't have a strong desire to do that, and I think lightly that it would be nice if I could do it someday. However, speaking of that, it is better to meet people around you as soon as possible and get married and have children. It is said (sometimes preached) that marriage and childbirth are wonderful.
Certainly, marriage is a happy and good thing, and I think giving birth is a wonderful privilege that only women can experience. However, it feels kind of empty when things like the above are emphasized just because they aren't really aware of it. I feel like I'm being told that I have no value as a woman... In particular, I hate being coerced by others the most, and when people say such things, they say, “I'll stay alone for the rest of my life!” A sense of opposition comes up.
There are also single women who are very active, but many such people have decent positions, achievements, abilities, etc., and there is no such thing for me.
Most people are married or have boyfriends at work or in private, and I often feel alienated because I am the only single person.
However, I want to use my life for myself in order to refine myself and live my own way, so I don't want to be caught up in marriage or childbirth.
Are women who think this way of thinking still heresy? And do women who don't have a “role (marriage, childbirth, etc.)” as women need different abilities/positions?
It's been a long time, but I would appreciate your advice.
