hasunoha

I want to stop the manners

Nice to meet you, I have an important girlfriend. We've been dating for about 2 months, but we are considering getting married and are in a serious relationship. I think he is an ideal person with the best personality and physical compatibility.

However, I have been fond of sex games since I was 20 years old, and I spend 50,000 to 60,000 yen every month on sex.
Going to the sex industry is ingrained in my body, and I can't put up with it even if I think it's no good.
It's a waste of money and time, and I really hate that I'm betraying my beloved girlfriend.
I want to stop this habit somehow.
I would appreciate your advice.

4 Zen Responses

If you are dependent

There are many kinds of dependencies in the world. In order to fill in the weak parts of your heart, some people use alcohol or cigarettes, so do you mean it's a custom. I'm not sure how much it is, but depending on the situation, it may be necessary to go to the hospital and get a consultation.

If it's just a habit, why don't you focus on the work and housework you need to do now so that you don't feel like only about improving your constitution or processing it yourself?

You should spend 300,000 yen every month

I'm going to the custom right now.
I'm going to the custom tomorrow, the day after tomorrow, and 3 days later.
Don't be a three-day boy. It's every day. Every day is a custom. More customs than three meals.
You'll run out of money eventually. You won't be satisfied, though. Then, once they work hard and accumulate money, they spend the full amount on customs.
What is contentment?
I felt refreshed on the spot. Is that all?
It's probably impossible. There is no bottom to human greed. It is satisfying to know that and to live properly.
If you do that, you will know the essence of true satisfaction.
There must have been a time when it was okay not to do that.
You just have to keep doing it and keep doing it until you feel ashamed that you are pitiful as a human being or man.
If you don't understand that, you'll fall on Gakido or Beast Road. Live that kind of life ❝ if you want to ❞ just push forward.
That way of life is also called a way of living without knowing yourself.
What don't you understand? Right now, I have a girlfriend, and eventually I have a wife and wife, and even when I'm in a responsible position, I run into that kind of act.
If you go bad, you'll get a venereal disease. It infects her. Injury charges and indirect murder charges.
I'm going to have that kind of awareness. I'm ashamed of myself (not even aware of it) that “customs” is ranked No. 1 above her in terms of value priority.
If you're in a position to become the head of the family from now on, it's something you have to clear. It's a cheap investment.
By the time you spend 500,000, you'll wake up in the middle of the action.
(Ω) (°-°;)

Become a consumer

When you become a married couple, a “life” awaits.
To put it bluntly, you haven't lived yet.
Marriage isn't about having fun every day. It's for the two of us to overcome hardships. That's what it means to become a married couple.
Please be happy with that woman.

What customs are you addicted to?

waste of money,
waste of time,
acts of betrayal against her,
Even though I know that much of a bad thing,
Why can't we put up with it?

If it's a bad thing,
You really don't think about it, do you?

If it's a habit,
I can definitely fix it.

Please keep yourself safe.