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About what a spiritual person said

I was introduced by my sister about 10 years ago, and I went to a spiritual place with a reputation for being able to see that person just by looking at their name and date of birth.

At the time, my little sister went to talk about wanting to have children, and she will soon become pregnant. I was told that I was actually pregnant the next week. Also, I was told that I could have 3 children, and I actually gave birth to 3 children. There are many other things that also apply.

And as I was told by that person, I can have a partner in the future, but I don't have children... I can't see it. I was told. At the time, I had no desire to get married and didn't even think about wanting children, so I didn't think about anything.

However, I got married last year and began to want children. Fortunately, I was able to get pregnant, but suddenly I remembered what I was told 10 years ago. I didn't say that person couldn't do it. I said it wasn't there. It's true that I'm pregnant. However, as of now, I'm still in my 6th week of pregnancy, and this is a time when there is a high possibility of a miscarriage.

My little sister was a perfect match, so being told that she doesn't have children by any means crosses my mind and makes me anxious.

I know the number one thing I don't care about is, but I thought about it, and I'm sorry for the baby in my stomach...

How can I stop thinking about unnecessary things?

Thank you for your support.

4 Zen Responses

It becomes

I thought it would become
You can do what you can do now.
“No children” is a safe prophecy.
Because even if a child becomes a college student and leaves home, they will “not be there,” so the answer is almost correct.

Ataru Mo Ghaku, Ataru Mo Ghaku

Nice to meet you, Lemon. I read your question.

Lemon was introduced by her younger sister about 10 years ago and went to a spiritual person with a reputation for being able to see that person just by looking at their name and date of birth, and was told, “I can have a partner in the future, but I can't have children.” Also, now I'm 6 weeks pregnant and there is a possibility of a miscarriage, so I'm worried that the spiritual person will be right.

As a proverb, it's called “winning or not winning is gossip.”

What is Lemon's most important thing right now?
Did a spiritual person say that to you? Or is it just a baby trying to prolong his life?

The Buddha said don't be misled by other words and live your own way.
Lemon's way of life is to cherish October 10th so that babies are born safely. Please walk your own path so as not to be misled.

The choice is yours.

Your life is yours to decide.
Do you live the life people tell you to live?
No matter what kind of person says it to you, only you have the choice.

They think they won't have to think about unnecessary things, so you should do that.
This is a precious child I've been blessed with.
Right now, let's think about growing up well and act.

Fortune telling techniques

 Fortune telling is by no means one-size-fits-all.

Magic and what is called sorcery show performances that seem like “miracles” to the general public. But there is no real magic. There are seeds and gimmicks, there are excellent techniques and talks, and it is precisely because there are exquisite productions that great performances are performed.

Fortune telling is similar. Through conversation with the requester, information on the other party is skillfully drawn out, and “trust communication” is carried out in such a way as to convince the requester or surprise the requester. One of these fortune telling techniques is called cold reading.

https://ja.wikipedia.org/wiki/%E3%82%B3%E3%83%BC%E3%83%AB%E3%83%89%E3%83%BB%E3%83%AA%E3%83%BC%E3%83%87%E3%82%A3%E3%83%B3%E3%82%B0

After reading this technique, I think there are many parts that apply to conversations and fortune-telling when you had your fortune telling before. A conscientious fortune teller devotes himself to consulting until he gets tired of it.

However, there are bad fortune tellers in the world. Bad fortune tellers try to blackmail clients and make them buy expensive pots, ornaments, and graves. For example, “Your tomb doesn't look good. Please change to this kind of tomb (Kiso tomb). Your fortune will improve.” It's called something like that. Fortune tellers are by no means omnipotent. There are seeds and gimmicks in fortune telling. It's about listening to fortune telling based on this. Please be careful.