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Is it worth living in a way where you can't do anything?

I failed an interview for a full-time employee today too.
I don't have anything I'm good at, I'm a junior high school graduate, I can't get a license, and I can't do Excel or Word
Life is difficult just because my husband earns money, so I have to become a full-time employee as soon as possible
I live my life bothering people every day
I don't have any friends, I don't have any mom friends, and I'm sorry that I'm breathing
But even though I have to work harder for my child's future, I keep failing interviews
If this is the case, kids will become middle school graduates like me
If I die, I'll get insurance
My living expenses will also decrease
Is it still worth living for me
Is there more value than money

4 Zen Responses

Your value is that you are the only one.

There are no worthless people in this world.
Everyone is precious. What was born into this world has many translations and missions.
Of course, there may be good people and bad people, but this is a temporary situation in the long run.
Machiko also had a relationship, got married, and had a child. Isn't that amazing? Certainly right now, it may be a headwind in many ways, but did you put in that much effort? It will be.
No path will be paved without any effort. First, let's be satisfied and grateful for the current situation, and then start with what we can do.
Of course, economic stability is important. But there are many things worth more than money.
Look at your child's smile. Great value, isn't it? Furthermore, Machiko is the only person with the greatest value for children.
Let's start with what we can do.

It doesn't matter if you are a junior high school graduate. Work hard from now on.

Hello Machiko.

It seems like middle school graduates have become complicated. It's fine. There are many people who have succeeded in their lives after graduating from middle school, and people who have become very rich. There is nothing better than having an educational background, but even without it, your life will be happy depending on your efforts. Is a driver's license a driver's license? If that's the case, you should be able to get it by studying with a book. Word and Excel are the same. You should be able to learn little by little. The important thing is to study little by little. High school graduates and college graduates are the same. You can't pass by jumping one step.

If I don't have any friends, I'll be my friend. Now you've made friends. Please feel free to contact me anytime.
I'm a full-time employee, but first of all, don't worry about being a regular employee; it's fine whether it's a part-time job, or anything, so work hard. Companies are looking for people who work hard. Then, the path for regular employees also opens up from there. Even if you are a middle school graduate, that doesn't mean your child has graduated. Your hard work will ensure that children learn and become good children.

Your child will only be sad if you die. And I will also be sad when we become friends. There's no such thing as you're worthless. First of all, I was very successful just living in Japan. And depending on the effort, its value can increase many times over.
I'm still in my twenties. young young. If you work hard for 3 years from now, even if you don't go to high school, you will have more strength than a high school graduate, and if you work hard for 4 more years, you can have more strength than a college graduate even if you don't go to college. Education is a means, not a goal. If you win happiness even if you don't go to school, your educational background doesn't matter. Rather than that, let's think about our own way of life and create our own value.

You can do anything if you're willing to die. Why don't we do our best together? (Laughter) I've applied for a friend, so please contact me later. I'm rooting for you. Gassho

Please keep an eye on what is going well.

I read your question.
When things don't go well, you may feel like everything you do isn't going well.
But if you look at it calmly, there are always things that are going well.
You may not be able to see it.

Nor have I achieved anything or been particularly successful.
However, being with my wife and daughter. That alone makes me feel like I'm doing well enough.

Aren't you unaware that being or being is so commonplace?
Nothing is taken for granted.
It is possible for me and for you that everything will be taken away, just like the disaster of the other day.
Please keep a close eye on it.

Can you live even on welfare

You can graduate from high school even if you are on welfare.
Perhaps from now on, scholarship systems will be more complete than they are now, and it may be an age where children can go to college even if their parents are unemployed.

Don't try to solve anything by yourself.
Let's gather the courage to rely on government offices and rely on others.

Even if you don't have money, you can smile, tell jokes, and play with kids laughing.
Have fun playing with your kids.
Let's praise your child.
I'll praise them when they can do it, even if it's obvious.