My boyfriend supports polygamy

I found out that my boyfriend, who is thinking about getting married this year, supports polygamy.
It is said that those who have children with young women are for the future of Japan; they can efficiently leave offspring, so if they have enough income, they want to be polygamous, and wanting to have children with young women is unavoidable because it is a man's instinct.
From this side, it makes me wonder if my boyfriend is an affair reserve.
Can I marry this person?

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If you feel uncomfortable, please reconsider.

It is said that they are considering marrying this guy, but if I were your parent, it would be difficult for me to agree.
What he is saying is just like that, but as you said earlier, it also seems like he created a reason to make him admit infidelity.
Of course, marriage for foreigners was recently featured on TV, but it seems that the country allows up to 4 people due to polygamy. Of course, my wife will be the nationality of that country.
Needless to say, it is not recognized in Japan, and it is not used legally. But beyond that, isn't the purpose of marriage to build a family, nurture a life, and enjoy happiness while cooperating with each other as a married couple?
Even if the couple's way of being is different depending on each environment, that is unavoidable.
However, even if they are forced to make such arguments from the beginning, there is no way to answer that it is true.
If Mr. P feels uncomfortable, I think that is something that should be reconsidered.

What was the context of that story?

How serious is your boyfriend?
Aren't they just talking about it as a joke's dream story?
Or maybe my boyfriend is quite rich, and my wife, like the old president, is also planning to surround the semi-official “No. 2 (mistress)”?

Are you kidding me or are you serious?
If your boyfriend just talks about it as a joke or an ideal image,
I think you should say to your boyfriend, “I know the ideal, but once you get married, I won't allow cheating.”

If you agree with his ideas, I think you should get married; if you don't agree, I think you shouldn't get married.
It's up to you.

appending
I'm worried because I feel like I'll have a hard time after marriage because I can't say what I want to say.

You should properly convey your feelings

worship
Maybe
I understand that the questioner can't clearly express his opinion
or if nothing is said
“I had it approved”
There may be such an intention to think
Guys are basically weak with sexual desire
If they were to make that kind of statement at the timing before marriage
It's also a statement of intent saying “I'm not aggressive in suppressing my sexual desire”
And I'm guessing they're probably still thinking about that kind of floating thing
Rather than stopping or not quitting marriage
It should be clearly stated
Things you don't like
If it's a relationship where you can't say that, maybe you should thoroughly review it

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