Zen Dialogues

Reflections from Japan's Buddhist Traditions

they died by suicide and became a survivor...

I actually became a suicide survivor myself. I don't really feel like that Every day is stifling. The fact that there are various types of support Whether it's this site or local information I've seen it, but the hurdles are high. When I think I'll call someone I don't know at all and...

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I still can't talk properly with my father.

I lived away from my father from kindergarten until I graduated from elementary school. The reason isn't the case now, but it was due to my father's debt, women's issues (recently revealed), violence, and my father's personality that prioritizes work over family. Once in a while, my father...

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Why was the Earth born and I am here

When I hear epic stories such as celestial classes from a long time ago, I wonder why I'm here... Why was the Earth born... There were times when I felt uneasy, but at the beginning of this year, I suddenly didn't know what I was and I panicked. Why can we recognize words when we can recognize...

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About my current husband's past

I remarried my current husband, one year younger, in March of last year with my 19- and 9-year-old stepchildren. I haven't told anyone, but the reason we met was each other's followers on Twitter. When we met 3 years ago, my husband had an affair for 13 to 14 years with the wife of my...

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It makes me jealous

I entered the high school nursing department and graduated after 5 years studying earnestly as a regular nurse. I've been working since I was 20, and now I'm in my 5th year. I've been working for my dream nurse since I was young, and recently I made a friend who is a graduate student. That...

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Soka Gakkai

My mother is a member of the Soka Gakkai. That's almost always the case in my mother's family. Honestly speaking, I want them to quit, but my opinion is that it would be good if the person himself was saved. However, it's unbearable for me to be forced upon my own ideas. I love history,...

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About the destruction of my 2-year-old son

My 2 year old son is naughty and cute. However, sometimes he becomes the King of Destruction. If what I want doesn't go through, I throw things and hit them. It's dangerous, so if you're careful, it will get even more intense. The LCD on the TV broke today too. This is my second time. I...

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Please tell me

My father-in-law, who had been estranged for many years, passed away at the hospital this month. It's been 10 years since I moved into the home... my relationships were completely out of control, and my life was just stuck in my shell. I visited the body, wearing a special mask and guard...

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How should I recover from my mistakes and regrets

Hello. I have now quit my job and am looking for a job. The other day, I received a message from my previous business partner saying “I want you to come to our company.” At that time, I was in the process of selecting the company of my first choice. The first company I wanted to apply for...

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I don't know how to choose a temple.

Let me ask you a question. I've been married for 16 years. For married couples in times of emergency, on a regular basis I want to enter a temple for memorial services for my ancestors, etc. I talk to my husband all the time. But how to choose a temple etc. is completely unclear I've been...

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About the goshuin you get at the temple

I've always loved Kyoto and visited temples a lot. Being in a temple calms my mind, and I feel like I can become my true self, and I learned about goshuin as something that leaves memories other than photographs etc. I'd like to have it next time, but would it be rude to ask if you could...

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Can parents be sued

I recently learned that parents are not doing their parental duties. I'm a minor, so I need my parents' consent to do anything. Now that I'm 16, my parents say to school, “I have fulfilled my parental responsibilities and I will live my life.” However, when the tests are busy, they won't do...

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Is it a woman or a man?

Is it a woman, a man, or just another creature? I was born a woman. I had no doubts about being a woman when I was young. (Or maybe they didn't think it was a woman or a man?) It was around the time the girls around me started menstruating, and breast bulges began to appear. I began to...

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An old man I was on good terms with has passed away

It recently became known that an old man I met through work and was good friends with in private has passed away. He died at the age of 93. I was a tour guide, and I became good friends with an old man who guided me on the tour, and even went out to eat in private. My grandfather also liked...

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About space existence and open contact

I often hear stories about the beginning of interaction with cosmic beings in the spiritual community right now. From a monk's point of view, what do you think of this kind of story? On some video sites, there are people who say that only the chosen ones can have that kind of interaction, etc.,...

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About stillbirths

Nice to meet you. A sad event happened the other day. My brother's third child had a miscarriage. I was due to be born in September, so I was relieved to have entered a stable period... The two older children are 10 and 8 years old and healthy. They say they will be cremated tomorrow 5/17,...

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I want to spread the essence of Buddhism

Hello. I always visit this site when I get lost. I came across a modern translation of the Heart Sutra not long ago, and I fell in love with Buddhism since then. It wasn't that I hated it until now, but I thought religion itself had nothing to do with me. Now, as I did a lot of research, I...

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The difference between Tarikiji Nembutsu and Jikiji Nembutsu

Does Shinran teach that if you chant Tariki Nembutsu, you will be saved? Nembutsu with all your heart is Tariki Nembutsu, right? If you put your heart into it even if you don't decide on your devotion, will it become Tariki Nembutsu How can the judgment of “putting your heart into it” be...

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What is the whereabouts of the deceased after that?

After all, when people die, they won't be anywhere, Watching over you from the side is a word for not feeling lonely so that those left behind don't follow you, right? Because I think it's terrible for people who have died to know this reality. If my husband sees this current situation, he...

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About offerings

After my grandmother's wake, my mother was called by a monk, “How much was the offering wrapped?” It seems that they were asked. Six years ago, at the time of my grandfather's funeral, life was difficult, so I was only able to wrap an offering for 30,000 yen. They brought that up, and...

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