I want to get rid of my addiction to a counselor on the internet

I'm sorry that I've asked the same question over and over again.
Also, please.
Every time I get an answer, I calm down a bit, but after a few days, confusion occurs.

Even though I was searching the internet in search of “happiness,” I found it embedded in spiritual blogs and sites and learned various words and meanings, and on the contrary, I began to be attacked by a “sense of anxiety.”

I've really looked at a lot of sites.
My thoughts were confused by them, and I thought I was a very strong person, but now I don't have the ability to concentrate and I'm struggling.

I'm reading e-mail newsletters from a lot of sites because I'm curious about one counselor right now, and while I want to receive counseling, I'm stuck with it because it's expensive.
However, when I read the effects after receiving counseling, I feel drawn in.

Don't let your husband or friends get in! They said, and I think it's better not to get into it myself, but I can't get it out of my head.
I'm thinking stupid things like a new life awaits me after receiving counseling.

It seems that it is a method where “good quality questions” are received every day for 21 days, and they are answered, but I don't know what kind of questions come up.
By doing so, you will be able to understand your true self, grasp your strengths and personality clearly, and make use of that to seize your life's work, and live a life without being in trouble with money.
I will do my best to support you so that it can happen, and...
The cost is 198,000 yen where it costs 498,000 yen, but even so, I think it's expensive, so I'll offer it for 98,000 yen.
If you apply within 7 days, you will receive 3 face-to-face consultations (equivalent to 90,000 yen) via Skype etc.

The narration in the text and video (no facial appearance) seems sincere.
When I ask my husband, he says, “Scammers are like that.”
If I had to say that, I think that would be the case too, but it makes me expect that I will somehow change who I am now.

Please, could you separate my thoughts from that counselor with the words of the monks?

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Is it OK if I send an email to the monk who said, “Please come and visit the temple”?

4 Zen Responses

I'll write my miscellaneous impressions.

Hello. I'll write what I felt. I said, “Do it this way. Ahhh, do it.” I'm not saying that. The decision is yours.

> I'm thinking stupid things like a new life awaits me after receiving counseling.
that's really stupid. I'm not waiting for a new life even after receiving counseling. I think the purpose of counseling is how to live your current life.

> Don't let your husband or friends get in! They said, and I think it's better not to get into it myself, but I can't get it out of my head.
Why worry when you think it's better not to get involved yourself? Isn't worrying a sign that you don't really think so?

> You will be able to live a life without having to worry about money
Is that your happiness? If that's the case, I think it's better to learn how to make money.

> The cost is 198,000 yen where it costs 498,000 yen, but even so, I think it's expensive, so I'm offering it for 98,000 yen,
(°°°) haha? What is this. The counselor himself said “because I think it's expensive even for me” in response to the initial amount of money he offered. Unfortunately, I don't feel that I'm being honest.

That's all, I've written my miscellaneous thoughts. I would be happy if there was something to be gained from this miscellaneous feeling.

It's a fraudulent commercial law

I read it.
If you have any problems or suffering, please let me know at this place too.

I don't think it's okay to slander people, but after all, I think such a method of presenting an amount of money is more suspicious than a TV shop channel.

I think it's probably a commercial law where victims can meet up after a while.

First, please talk to the monks here and here.

Also, specialists and counselors aren't that expensive.

I don't know about that counselor, so I can't say anything, but it seems clear that you are obsessed with that counselor.
Anyway, my husband is also against it, so I think it's better to stop it. Otherwise, you will lose your husband's trust, and there is a possibility that it will develop into a divorce in the worst case.
You haven't committed any crime.
You don't need to change your subconscious mind.
You can just be yourself.
I think it's because your husband is like that, that's why we got together.
Please don't forget that.
Please trust your husband.
Why don't you just use that money to go on a trip with your husband?

Why would you want to receive counseling in the first place?

Sorry for the late response.

I'm also studying counseling (I don't have any official qualifications).
Why would you like to receive counseling in the first place?
Isn't that clear?
The purpose of what I wanted to receive it wasn't clear,
What do you want to be, but in a state where you don't really understand
Please stop continuing to receive counseling.
If it's probably an excellent counselor, after one meeting,
I'll clarify the purpose and counseling theme!
Also, you can watch psychological counselor lectures for free on YouTube and the like.

If you don't show your face in “text or video (no facial appearance)”
If you were a proper counselor, that wouldn't be possible.
Rather than that, it's better to go listen to a puja, do zazen meditation, or copy sutras
Can you expect a lot of psychological effects, so it's cheap? It should stick.
Please think about it carefully.
FYI
Thank you for taking the time to read it.
One bow

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