What should I do?

Every human being has different values and different ways of thinking.

So, it's natural that there are people who don't feel right with you.

What do you want from a boss who isn't right for you?
Do you want to create a situation where we can understand each other?

However, if that were to happen, that would not necessarily result in imposing one's “correctness” on each other.

If you want to settle down with someone who doesn't suit you at all, you first need to abandon your own stereotypes and values and accept the other person's values and ways of thinking.
This is because if not, a sincere conversation is unlikely to occur.

Is that boss someone special to you who needs to go that far?

If you just want the other person to understand what you say “I'm right,”
This may be called complacency, and there is a greater possibility that things will not go well.
If that's the case, wouldn't it be smarter to transfer quickly?

No matter what the person is, you are living your life.

Nahara-sama
Nice to meet you, my name is Tetsuya Urakami from Nagomi-an.

I don't get along with my current boss, but I have a feeling that I don't want to run away.
I have missed my chance to transfer, and I also have a feeling of self-loathing.
You're struggling with your own worries, aren't you?
I think they even want you to push your back in order to take a step forward.

But you still have to decide this for yourself.
If it's a path you've decided for yourself, I think it's easy to get over lost. If you stand up for hesitation and move forward, regrets will be less likely to occur there.
So, you should decide for yourself.

However, I think the hint for that is to unravel each problem and think about it.
The only thing that doesn't suit you with your current boss is personality issues, so are you dissatisfied with your work?
Or will Nahara-san not be able to demonstrate her power under her current boss?

Can I turn down an opportunity to transfer once and then immediately ask for a transfer again?

If you have a family and are transferred, your family will also be affected.

I think the way we decide will also change depending on which issues we prioritize.
This is important, please think carefully!
I sincerely hope that the path Nahara-san has decided will be a good step forward.

　Good evening. I mentioned it as the title, but from this short sentence, I feel that there are things that you can't be positive about, are afraid, or are scared.
I don't do anything “I don't want to run away from myself (thinking)” while feeling the pain between “my boss who doesn't originally fit (I think)”
I wonder if that's what it means? I'm guessing, but what do you think? Humans are extremely severe when it comes to their own profits and losses (not limited to financial aspects, up to so-called social desires), so you're probably getting some kind of advantage from the position you are in now.
Also, put “painfulness” on the balance, and “merit” probably weighs more. But what are those “benefits”? I don't understand it, and it's probably not something I can say in a nutshell. They are also often complex.
Now that you've read this far, have you started playing out the “merits of staying in your current position”? Of course, “getting a reputation for being a man who doesn't run away from himself” can of course be counted as an advantage. When I think about that area calmly, it's common to say “it was just my own obsession.” The words are disgusting, but if you don't ask questions after writing down those “merits,” you won't be able to get a specific answer.
From the feeling of the sentence, I feel like I want to “stay” somehow.
Oh yeah, Buddhism “looks at the self” after all, so I'm just presenting a catalyst for that. In other words, it's a point of view. Asking a few questions will help you understand yourself.

There are people everywhere who don't like it.
Even if you changed jobs earlier,
After that, the person you don't think you'll meet again
There's no guarantee that it won't be there.

When I was an ascetic, there was a senior I didn't like just like you,
Things that were painful, like being abused or hit every day
I remember.
However, what that senior was saying
“You don't have to think that you want me to like you. Trying to be good friends
There's no need to think about it. I don't want to be liked by you guys,
I don't even want to fall in love with you guys.
You guys do what you have to do,
It's like, “That's until I do what I need to do.”

I feel like this is a word I really understand now.

Your current company doesn't belong to your boss,
It's not yours either.

I think you're there doing what you need to do,
Your boss is no different.
For the most part, if people like you don't like you, other people don't like you
I think they are there, but why is that person still there
There are times when it goes round and round.
So to speak, that boss is there to make you a better person
It can be said that it is a foundation.

However, if you still feel that you don't like it anymore,
Of course, there is also a way to change jobs.

Wherever you are, you can do what you need to do
It will help you pave your way.

well then. well then. Gassho