hasunoha

Working in the sex industry

I'm trying to work in the sex industry without telling him.
I quit once,
I just wanted a little more savings...
I plan to quit in two months.

Can a bee hit it?

I've also heard that if you work in the sex industry, it's easy to get bad feelings and your luck drops, but is that true?

4 Zen Responses

I read it.
It's a tough job, both physically and mentally.
Also, managing your health is a difficult job, so please take good care of your physical condition and take care of yourself first.

I don't think I'll get bad feelings or lose momentum, and I don't think I'll be hit by a bee.

If possible, I think it would be preferable to calm down and explain the situation to him.

Please take care of yourself, the people around you, and your daily life.

I want to wholeheartedly support you.

If you're planning to get married, I think it's better to stop if possible.
Nonetheless, if possible, I think it would be better to have a firm conversation with him and make an agreement so that he can understand.

Please think carefully about your future with him.

Manners and customs depend on attitude

I think it would be nice if it wasn't the first time. Please earn a solid income!

I can't say anything about whether or not to keep it a secret from him because I don't know the relationship or state of affairs between the two of them.

I saw your reply.
I'm glad I have plans to get married. There are various forms of manners and customs, so I think it's fine if it's okay. Please do your best by mobilizing your past experiences around there and setting up an antenna.
I've also worked in the sex industry, but there were crazy people and there were serious people, so it was a nice world. There are many cases where the experience at that time is enough (eye for people, etc.). Please practice well and put your mind to life!

There are no honors in the job.

Depending on the job, you won't be hit by a bee
It's a job that puts a strain on the mind and body
The possibility of getting into a difficult situation increases, doesn't it?

though
If you have decided to get married
Aren't you sorry for your boyfriend?
If it were me, I wouldn't want my fiancé to work as a sex worker.

Try asking him

I think I'd be shocked if I hid it from him and found out later.
Getting married probably means “not doing” such unfaithful things.
Even if you say two months, choosing a path that protects your purity and dignity as a person rather than the large amount of money saved up in those two months is a way of life worth more than money. You should probably stop it. You should save money in other ways.
Getting married means entering a family.
Pledge of purity to live a religious way of life.
It means living a way of living that lives up to your family.
However, customs are contradictory.
Don't make my family feel ashamed when my child is being born.
Once you get used to it, you'll be able to do anything human.
However, there are ways of life that should not be willingly carried out.
I've done it before, so it's fine, it doesn't mean you'll be forgiven.
Getting married means changing the way you live your life.
They say they want to do their best by setting a deadline in the thank you column, but I definitely want you to stop doing it.
Don't sell your conscience and chastity for money.
Let's look up the word chastity in an internet dictionary.
Even though becoming a married couple is like that, I don't think they should just betray you from the beginning!
Even if everything is possible in the world, nothing should be possible, don't do this kind of thing, you shouldn't do it! Staying still is an important attitude for not losing human humanity.
It's extremely disrespectful to him when you keep it a secret from him. It's not the most important thing to do when it comes to relationships between men and women, so please stay still.
By not doing that, you'll later think you're really glad you didn't.
Let's say there are two fortune tellers and one fortune teller tells you an answer you like.
People want to believe in fortune tellers who tell them fortune telling results they like.
The monk's guidance is not like that.
You can also respond to you and say the answers you like.
However, while being disrespectful to you, it is a monk who supports you so that you can live a way of life that you don't want to be ashamed of in a human way.
I want to say that you and him are truly happy.
Please stop and be the two of you who can be happy even if you don't have that money. I hope he will be properly consulted. You should feel his love there.