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Recently, I've been able to talk with monks, and opportunities to listen to them have increased, and I unknowingly used words that monks seem to use during conversations with people at work, such as “shawa,” etc., probably because exchanges have increased on SNS.

They say don't say shaba or anything.

What is so good about monks? It is said, but there is nothing I can do about what I like.

Why don't you fall in love with a monk. There are a lot of people who say that, right?

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Apart from that, I think it's okay to fall in love with monks

My wife is also from home, so I think love is free.

Is it faith or a role in a temple

　I don't think it's a problem at all to fall in love with monks.
However, the hurdles may rise when it comes to marriage because the sect of the temple doesn't match you, or if your role at the temple is difficult to understand.
There are also male monks who are actually worried about that. There are also people who say they don't want their wife to have a hard time. Since it's a religion, it's basically like being open 24 hours a day, so it's hard to travel when you like or have time for just the two of you.
What matters is whether you can love that person, including everything.
You are free to do whatever you like, but if you are getting married or have an heir, please be sure to talk about the future.

This is probably because temples are thought to be difficult.

What if you go out with someone at the temple and get married or something
You will be entering the temple with your wife or son-in-law.
The temple is open 24 hours a day, 7 days a week
Because I can't stop traveling
I think people in other occupations are easier
Maybe they're admonishing you.

It's from my home
If you think about vacations and financial things
I don't think temples have much flavor.
but there are good points other than that
If you don't care about public values
Please fall in love with the monk.

I don't like monks

If you go to a place to eat in plain clothes, you may get caught in your ears when speaking ill of the monk. I'm trying to become a better monk by using it as a reference.

So let's take in more and more negative opinions like that.

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