Is perfectionism such a bad thing?
Isn't it a high ability depending on the situation at that time?
I noticed that it was hard for anyone to notice, and the work was done carefully
You'll do it, right?
The line between perfectionism and not being perfect is also vague, and I don't understand why people are tempted to smoke when it's perfectionism.
Do I have to match myself to someone who has perfectionist tendencies and is sketchy?
Worship
What is perfect?
What about perfectionism
100 points of answer
100 points of work
If I have money, I'll ask for clothes, cars, and houses I like
If I'm popular I want to walk with a woman with 100 points
well, these are desires that wish to be like this
It's a job, so there's no such thing as
Tell me a story that made a leap forward when you say it like this
It may seem like they're doing it
Essentially, it doesn't change
Maybe Watanabe-san only works
Maybe you're directing that energy
perfect, as you said, is ambiguous about what is perfect
Perfect but vague
You don't understand the meaning
In other words, 100 points for myself
Or someone else said 100 points
it just seems like there is perfection where it was set
Etymologically it seems that perfect refers to a sphere without a single blemish
This world is made up of balance
even if you aim for perfection, the word perfect is meaningless in balance
Look at the trees
It just seems like perfect
It's so easy to accomplish incredibly complex tasks
However, it “makes use of a huge number of lives” all the way to the ocean
Even if I just do my job perfectly
It's a disgusting feeling if you stop smiling or being considerate
You won't be able to balance with the people around you
Cherish family time
Attentive to seniors and peers
Compassion for juniors
Time to spare for myself
In other words, I work in search of my own happiness
what everyone should aim for is the perfect balance
Gassho
I'm indebted to you.
Watanabe-sama received that there are good points about perfectionism, and that he unequivocally thinks that perfectionism is bad.
Also, I received that my perfectionist self felt stuffy about having to adjust to my surroundings.
I myself think of myself as a perfectionist, but I think there are good points and bad points about perfectionism.
First of all, the good point is that, as Watanabe says, the work is careful, and when you look at it from your surroundings, you seriously work on things that make you think you should cut corners because it's difficult.
I think this is a very precious thing.
Now, here's the downside.
The way we work is gradually changing, and I feel that the skill of “putting it into shape for the time being” is now being required. Instead of doing 100 points of work in one shot, it means presenting 70 or 60 points of work first.
In my opinion, I think both are important skills.
Perfectionism is not unequivocally evil, and it is also important to present a certain degree of form.
It would be best if we could build such a relationship where we respect each other's strengths.
There must be a lot of trouble, but if you feel like complaining, please come back here. I think a lot of monks will listen to the story.
There is no time and it is different from the original answer method (see profile), so please forgive me if there are any typos or omissions.
It will demonstrate great power as an ability, but if difficult things occur because of perfectionism, we must correct the direction and trajectory of that perfectionism.
I think there is a “prior me (prioritizing my own consciousness)” rather than perfectionism.
That's probably what so-called perfectionism is, but if we want to pursue true perfectionism, let's break the current situation.
In other words, so-called perfectionism always bumps into someone in life, and anger arises at oneself. If that's the case, it still isn't perfectionism. I think it would be nice if you became a true perfectionist and perfectionist with your attitude of seeking perfection.
Then, since they prioritize things that make themselves unshakable and less painful, the direction they seek changes.
Perfectionism, which combines flexibility and flexibility, is less damaging.
So, if there is such a kind of perfectionism, what it is, it's not your perfectionism right now. If that perfectionism is really refined with perfectionism, it should have perfection that doesn't even cause suffering.
So, speaking of what such perfectionism is, at least, it's not your perfectionism right now.
That's why, as a perfectionist, you have no choice but to improve yourself even more.
In Buddhism, there is the term Bodhi Heart.
The feeling of improving in search of the supreme bodhi.
Then, the perfectionism that came from me will evolve more and more.
It is becoming something that saves people who are not exclusive or exclusive, and are full of mercy and wisdom.
Perfectionism won't be perfect if the underlying mentality is ego.
True perfectionism is about being able to think about others.
Also, it's a fresh feeling of being given a brand new feeling of being given the same thing every time as a mentor without putting only myself, or my own thoughts as a top priority.
It's so perfect that there is no worry, no suffering, and no obsession with being perfect or imperfect.