Is that a strange name?

I've been worried about my son's name.

I named my son the night before delivery, as if it were a dream announcement.

I'm sorry, but could you read my profile?

However, both the kanji and sound are mistaken for girls. The kanji are presumptuous, and it's easy to be possessed by spirits.
It's a sparkling name, isn't it?
It has been said.

I was so worried that when I had 90% of my son look at my son,

The first reason I got divorced was because of my son's name.
Are you going to add this kanji to make it even a priest?
I was told.

The shock increased my worries.
I also thought about changing the name, but my husband opposed it at the time and gave up.

Now that I'm a single mother, it seems like I can go to court alone,
I'm already 5 years old, so my son is familiar with this name.

From a monk's point of view, do you think this name is presumptuous, sparkling?
Thank you for your support.

4 Zen Responses

It's a good name

Hey, think about it calmly, do you think your son's name has anything to do with your couple's divorce? Are there any spirits attached to your name? Have you ever seen someone like that? It wouldn't be ridiculous. Don't believe what that “psychic” says. The words “psychic” are untrue, and they only mislead you and are not a source of salvation.
I saw the name in the profile, but I was able to read it correctly by looking at the characters, I don't think it's a sparkling name, and I don't have an image of a priest in particular. I don't care about “a boy but his name looks like a girl.” There are many other names used by both men and women. In our generation, it's like “Kaoru” or “Masami.” My parent's generation is like “Sanae.” When it comes to Imadoki, the same is probably the case with “Kokoro.”
What's even better about my son's name is that, combined with the meaning of the characters in the name and the meaning of “reading” (meaning “over everything”) when the name is in hiragana, I think it's a very nice name.
That's a good name. Please take good care of it.
　

It's not presumptive, and I don't think it's a sparkling name

I saw your child's name, but it's not particularly presumptuous, and I don't think it's a sparkling name.

I think there are many male people with similar names.

No matter what your name is, others say this and that.

There are times when we soon forget the words of the person praising us, but if they are demeaning, people will always worry about it. This is natural as a movement of the human mind, but if you remain trapped by it, you will not be able to make correct decisions.

There's nothing particularly strange about a child's name as a male name.

There's absolutely no need to worry.

That's a beautiful name.

It's not a difficult kanji
It's not an irrelevant reading
It's not a glittering name.

It's painful to be divorced
The child has absolutely nothing to do with the cause.

Your kids and friends
You're probably familiar with that name
I don't think there's any need to change it.

It's fine.

As other monks have said, there's no particular problem.
In recent years, there are many more names like Eh.
So it's fine.

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