I want to end a life that isn't going well

It would be a waste to sleep.
Certainly, people become aware of marriage at that age, but not only do you find a marriage partner, but you should also value your own life.
How about lessons, for example?
If it's science, on the other hand, flower arrangement, painting, swimming, karaoke, etc.
First, enjoy your life.
It's best if you find a good partner on top of that.

Incidentally, there are many single monks, so it's a good idea to attend monk conferences that seem to go to urban areas from time to time.
There are probably only strange people, but feel free to kill time.

I saw your question. I'll soon be a 35-year-old monk.

The words to give are perfect

“If you don't show up, you won't meet.” “If you don't show up, you can't meet.” That's it.

It is said that I registered with a marriage agency for 1 year and met various people, and although it is a pity, I recommend that you not be disappointed, because a good relationship was not formed. I think that attitude of seeking encounters is very important and at the same time wonderful. You may be disappointed if you “pry” it too much, but if you lose strength in your shoulders for a while and your motivation doesn't increase, I think it's necessary to rest in a positive way, but why not turn backwards and rest positively?

There are various types of encounters where “encounter” can be described in one word, such as good encounters, bad encounters, healthy encounters, and inappropriate encounters. The nature of the world is that not everything is necessarily a “good relationship.”

Spring is coming soon. We are entering a new fiscal year. Why don't you change the questioner's feelings along with the season and look forward to new encounters?
Once it gets warmer, let's be as stylish as we can and go out.
If you don't go outside on your own, “meet up.” It's not there.

Now it's time to take a short break, fill up your mind's energy, and embark on a journey of new encounters! I sincerely pray that spring will come to you too. I hope I can meet close friends and future marriage partners soon. “If you don't show up, you won't meet.” “If you don't show up, you can't meet.” We clap hands.

Actually, I think life is about only a few good things, and far more bad and difficult things.
In short, it's not a matter of preparation, is it? Even if you don't like it a little, it won't be hard if you take this for granted. That's because this is everyday life. On the other hand, it's painful and sad if you only think about this kind of thing.
I presume that you are highly educated and have a certain level of dignity.
Haven't you been able to work so hard in your life until now?
They work very hard, and I think they are active people.
You're taking on the challenge. The results haven't come out so far, but I think I was able to gain the experience of going to a marriage agency. As a result, I was able to meet a variety of people as a relationship, and I was able to gather the experience of being able to meet various people.
Isn't it wonderful? First, please acknowledge yourself.
You are more wonderful than someone who chants marriage and doesn't do anything.
It is said that there was no one he could fall in love with, but it just so happened that I hadn't met a man I felt attractive to yet. Wouldn't it be nice if you didn't find that important encounter of a lifetime in about a year?
As long as you don't stop moving forward in life, great people will always appear before you.
The Prince of Hakuba is always there.
The first thing to do is to approve yourself. If possible, take what happened to you in a bright and positive direction
I recommend that you change your way of thinking.
For example, I'm tired and it's hard → let's take a good rest today and prepare for tomorrow...
I don't like this person → the next person is a better person!!
It's like this. How about it?

Honon-sama

This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is a humble answer to the question.

I'll hide my shame and reveal it here for you.

It was before I met my humble wife, but in fact, it has now been integrated with Rakuten, but I registered with the marriage agency “Onet” for a while.

“I've met so many different people for almost a year, but no one likes them. ”... I feel like I understand.

There was only one person I actually met, but at that time, something was different... I immediately unsubscribed. (It was a waste of money... it was pretty expensive...)

Apart from that, it's not that marriage agencies and brokerage businesses are bad, and I think it's because there was a problem with my “motives.”

I wonder if the real intention is the same.

However, because I don't like being alone, because I'm lonely, because I want to start a family... after all, don't you feel like something is different?

What is marriage for... of course it is for “happiness.”

However, “marriage” does not mean “happiness.” If that were the case, there wouldn't be so many divorces or marriage troubles and suffering in today's world.

“Marriage” does not mean “happiness” or “family” = “happiness,” but supporting and helping each other, sharing various things together regardless of any difficulties, being on good terms, and having peace of mind, and having fun, and that should be “happy.”

How to have motivation and seek relationships and encounters for that “happiness” is important.

As everyone has said, “there are no good encounters without seeking a relationship.”

Once again, please think about the above, and let's go outside for “relationships” and “encounters,” whether at marriage agencies or anything. Have courage.

As the nickname suggests, thank you for revealing your true intentions here. Hasunoha is a place to reveal your true intentions. I also revealed my true intentions.

I wish you a good relationship and happiness. We are waiting for good news in the thank you section.

Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho

You're feeling really tired...

First, nothing needs to be done.
Please rest your body slowly.

There were times when I felt uneasy about the future, when things didn't go well with those around me, and there were times when I was shrouded in an indescribable mess ❗

Right now, don't be impatient and rest as much as you want.

However, from time to time, I recommend taking a walk while taking a big, deep breath (quite long) ✋