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What's the difference between love and love?

They say it's love in one bite, but what's the difference?
Which one do you think more deeply about your partner these days? I was talking to my friends about this topic, but I couldn't come to a conclusion.
Thank you for your support.

5 Zen Responses

Mercy Saves the Earth

Well, first of all, the characters are different.

,,,,, I'm sorry.

But as long as love and love aren't something we pick up and touch, it's about putting our imagination into words. Therefore, before they were the same or different, I think people who thought they were different used different words and different characters.

Incidentally, I think love is something you look at at each other, and love is something where you both look in the same direction.

In Buddhism, love is “what you seek,” so it is an affliction and one of the causes of suffering. If I give chocolate on Valentine's Day, I want to get something in return on White Day. So love won't save the planet. Most of us Japanese probably think that love equals free love (agape in Greek). Incidentally, we don't call it “love,” but “mercy.” Mercy doesn't ask for anything in return. So in the case of Japanese, isn't love more love than love and mercy over love if you have deep feelings for the other person?

Love is right around the corner. Love is in a state of mind.

Hello.

As Master Masuda said, the kanji are different.
What's different, the position of the mind is different.
Love has a heart in the middle, and the character for love has a heart underneath.

That's why love is crazy, and love is shitagokoro...
I used that phrase when I was in my 20s...

As for the current state of mind in my 40s...
I don't think either one changes when my heart is drunk, but I feel like what ends when it cools down is love, and what remains even when it cools down is love.

Which one feels for the other person is my own emotion.
If you just impose your own feelings of thinking this much, you'll be left alone.

I feel that it is more important to be able to take care of what the other person values rather than my own feelings.

In any case, I would like to remind you that the romance will go well.

Love and love, love and love

 Yamaotoko-san. Love is “falling in love with the opposite sex.” However, religion has a deep meaning when it comes to love.
Christianity comes to mean love everything represented by “love your neighbor.”
In Buddhism, when it comes to love, there is an “love word” in the four regents, and I would like to think that Naoe Kanetsugu's helmet “Ai” was taken from there.
In “Shohōgenzō,” which was shown by Dogen Zenji
“When you look at sentient beings, when you look at sentient beings, first invent a heart of charity, apply the language of patronage, and when you use the language of love, it is a language of love when you save and speak with love (fear) of jinnen sentient beings (Jinenshujo) Yuyu (yunyo) baby (shakushi) is a language of love; praising virtuous people; being virtuous should be merciful; surrendering (goofuku) your enemies and making peace with your gentleman is the root (face) of love (face) Listening to love words with (muka) makes the face happy, makes the heart happy, and it is essential to listen to love words without face (muka) You should not memorize your soul, and learn that the power of Kaiten is able to love words.” There is such a thing.
This game “Ai” won!
 

Love is internal. Love is external

Nice to meet you
My name is Seishun from the Otani school of Shinshu.

Let's say love is blind
Apart from my partner, I'm in love when I say I'm obsessed with you.
I don't know what's what anymore, but I'm worried about the other person and can't help it.
I can't see my surroundings.

On the other hand
There seem to be two kinds of love.
One is love I want you to love.
The two are loves I want to love.

I want you to love you, no matter how you feel, you can't enjoy a sense of satisfaction if the other person doesn't take care of you.
If you love me, I will love you too. It's like that.
With the love you want to love, you can get satisfaction by loving yourself no matter what the other person is.
It means I love you even if you don't love me.
It seems similar to love in writing, but it's completely different.
Stalking love is nothing but obsession for me, and I can't call it love. It's not love either. (Personal statement!)

“Love is concrete action”
I like that word.

Love is a one-way street
Maybe love is mutual.

Which one is deeper... is probably love!!!

Familial or not

Once upon a time, in Japan, it was common for poor families to have grown up children go out to stay.
As the eldest son grew up in a family where there were many siblings, he made up his mind day by day saying, “It's about time I don't do anything for my younger brothers and sisters ('omega').”
“Alright, let's go out secretly in the middle of the night without our parents knowing on this day”
The eldest son planned to leave in the middle of the night after getting ready for the trip.
My father and mother were awake from behind when I was wearing sandals. “You can take this with you”
I brought nigiri and the money needed for the trip and handed it to the child. “Whoa, OK” (end)
It's a story where the more you chew, the more delicious tears are.
The child sees the poverty of the house, feels it without speaking or talking about it, and the mother senses it by looking at the child's back.
Nowadays, every room can be locked. It was a time when there were no shoji or fusuma.
It is only because there are no walls that I understand the other person as if it were my own.
This is family love. Isn't it precious that it can be conveyed without words such as I love you? (..) blemishes
On the other hand, “love” is just a feeling of caring for the other person, but no matter what, my own affairs come first. They even feel angry when they are betrayed or go against their expectations.
Well then, I think it's a stage where it hasn't developed into love.
Even in a family, there is no “love” if there is a blood connection but there is no feeling of caring for the other person.
Whether there is a blood connection or not, even in the DNA test that caused a stir in the world, if there is a feeling of caring for the other person, let's be in love.
This answer may not seem like a story about romance, but the last station for love is to become a family.
No matter how the label of love is there, such as love that isn't, I wonder if it's just selfishness, where I just want to make the other person what I want, I just want to make it something like myself. (._.)