I can't put up with bad things

I get angry when the game doesn't go well and the game is over

I'm angry that even though I'm asking a question about this, the answers apply to everyone and they don't look at me

I'm angry that things don't go according to my expectations

You can't do it unless you write and say things that make you angry like this one by one
they used to give more hands to people and break things, but now it's being suppressed

How can I put up with bad things?
I don't like the fact that I'm not in the lead role even though it's the life I'm being made to live
I hate others

4 Zen Responses

You already

You've probably reached your limit.

It's a sensitive sensibility, and it seems like it might be tough.

https://hsptest.jp

Why don't you try this test?

Please exhale with hasunoha and try to balance it somehow.

appending
Thanks for your reply.

I don't understand my own feelings.
Isn't that what a lot of people are doing right now?

My true self is number one. It's “I want to exist”

The second is “I want to feel comfort and pleasure for that.”

I think this is the basis of living things.

However, my true feelings didn't go well,
If the tough situation continues, the creatures will run wild.
Your instincts are probably struggling no matter what you do.

You're not alone in being greedy.

Due to lack of affection in childhood and obstacles such as overprotection and excessive interference,
It is also said that various problems will occur.

What is important is your desire to “be spoiled” right now, isn't it?
Pampering is also very important.

“Dependence” is a problem. This is because opponents can also fall down.
However, I think that the act of being spoiled nurtures the roots of human beings.

Greed makes people happy and unhappy.
Again, please be good at pampering hasunoha.

If it's an HSP, it seems like it's a congenital brain type.

1/2 postscript
Is there a line between indulgence and dependency?
I thought about it a little more.
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1/8 update
I think it's okay to be spoiled. I acknowledge that I want to be spoiled now, and I think it's okay to be spoiled. That's how I live my life myself.

Dependency is a problem depending on the extent.
I called it “trouble” when your opponent falls down.

But that is the only way humans can move forward.

Please indulge yourself with good things.

I'm going to go out with you~

It's important to help each other and understand each other.

I want friends like that.

1/14 update
I'm sorry if I forced you to be positive in any way.

I'm writing it because I like it, so don't worry about it.

If I feel like it again, any time...

I want to snuggle up to them, even if they're not positive

Your concern has been received

Q's

Your concern has been received. Thank you for your honest feelings.

You get angry when things don't go as expected.

In Buddhism, that is what we call suffering, and we think we are living suffering.

Please take care of yourself when you are angry that things don't turn out the way you want them to. Maybe it's a natural reaction. It's fine.

There are probably days when you hate others.

Please acknowledge yourself for having managed to live even on such a day.

There will surely come a day when things will go well.

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