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What is the fate of a person who has committed a crime and deeply hurt a person

I was victimized by revenge porn. My partner is someone I've been in a relationship with in the past (4 to 3 years ago), and it seems that many videos have been spread all over the world since 4 years ago. It hurt me terribly. Every day is so painful that I die. I'm anxious, I can't sleep, and I can't work. I consulted with many lawyers and hired them, but since the video has been spread since 4 years ago, they said they didn't know if they could charge the person with the crime. There is also a possibility that you will just cry and fall asleep. I have to keep searching for videos and deleting them every day until I die. People who have committed crimes are living a happy life. I must fight my fears until I die. If I hadn't been charged, I wouldn't be able to leave this kind of suffering for the rest of my life. However, a man who has committed a crime lives a happy life without being charged with a crime even if he commits a crime. They tend to do it, and it's not fair. It's unforgivable. even though we are suffering so much. So I have a question. If you hurt and torment someone in this way, no matter how happy they seem now, will the bee hit the person who suffered it? I even want death to pay for it..

4 Zen Responses

I really sympathize

 It really is an unforgivable act. You are not responsible. If the current law is like that, it is proof that the law is not keeping up with internet crimes. I sympathize with you. If you're thinking about retaliation against your opponent, why not start a ○○ movement instead? In recent years, there have been many movements appealing for women's human rights, such as “#ME TOO.” The fact that sex is neither love nor pleasure, but consent is also increasing in Europe and America. There is also a movement where people always write a consent form before having sex.
I made a donation to the General Incorporated Association COLABO in the wake of the lecture. This organization is an organization that protects girls from sexual crimes. I am mainly active in Tokyo. You can find out more by looking at the website, but if you don't mind, getting in touch once may be one way.
Why don't you think about acting with someone who's hurt just like you? Maybe now is attracting attention in overseas media that Japan lags behind the most when it comes to sexual crimes.

The reward for countless crimes

We are suffering due to the rewards of countless sins (evil karma) that we have built up from a long past life (previous life).
Your damage may also be compensation for your own sins from your own past.
Of course, the perpetrator also suffers because of his own afflictions.
If you don't practice to get rid of your worries, your worries and suffering will increase.
However, on the other hand, we commit misdeeds that increase our worries (training to become bad people, so to speak), commit crimes, and develop personalities that make it easy to worry and suffer.
His act of revenge porn is a form of resentment, isn't it?
The reason he had such a grudge, in other words, anger, was because he had a personality that made it easy to get angry because of his past deeds.
He has a personality that makes him suffer from the stress of anger unless he does training to fix his personality that makes him angry easily.
What he did wrong was because he had a personality that easily got angry, and it was an act that caused him suffering.
So he already suffers every day.
The personality of not being able to live without committing a crime is suffering itself.
So, you are no different.
If you remain angry at him, you will also be in a state where you are training to have a personality that makes it easy to get angry, and you will train to have a personality that makes you worry and suffer easily, so there is no solution.
We are killing and suffering countless living things. Do we have the right to put aside our sins and hold a grudge against him (the perpetrator)?
Think of your suffering as compensation for your own sins and give up.
Actually, it makes you happier.
Buddhism does not hate others and aims to improve one's own personality.
It's a waste of time to hate others and feel bad.

Crime and Punishment

It was a painful feeling, wasn't it?
It's really infuriating and uncomfortable.
If it's a cowardly act with no room for sympathy,
I think so.
He is due to this, the cause
What kind of results you will receive
To Judge Enma-sama
I'll leave it up to you!
In order to be sure to get that result,
I think it will happen,
That is for Shinto and Buddha to decide.
Did you have a causal relationship
wasn't there,
That is true even for this fool
There's no way you can understand it.
There is only one thing I can say
It's there.
Sad and painful things,
I want to cry I can't help but cry,
Heartbreak, that pain
Because it's pain
I wonder if there is a way to look back
Isn't there one?
I had a really hard time,
That's why you
I understand pain for people.
Of hurting the heart
severe pain,
You can understand that, right?
I think it can be done.
cowardly and despicable,
What kind of results did what you did
I understood if it was going to create
I'm sure!
I think about people like this,
just holding a grudge is a waste of time,
Your heart
It's going to get foggy.
Conversely, it's what the culprit wants.

Please just forget it.
Have a great encounter
If you meet someone,
You'll forget it.

new encounters,
Happiness from the bottom of my heart
I pray for you.

Only weirdos watch malicious videos. Weirdos don't cause problems because they're not people.

That scum bastard will one day be punished as a desperate trick person if the world becomes a world where I don't have to be a monk.
I'll write that I dare to remove the thorns of your heart's suffering from a different angle.
If it doesn't suit your skin, you can go through it.
First
🙈 I can't see
🙊 I won't say
🙉 I can't listen
Let's stick to the basics.
I've also been hit on the internet, but I haven't watched. Nor will it be against your opponent.
Let's know that people who are happy to see such things are merciful people who live in different worlds and circumstances. That's because even if they look like humans, they're not human.
A long time ago, there was a comic like this in otolaryngology.
This is a story about a woman who appeared in an AV.
I was so young that I appeared in AV.
Eventually, they joined the family and lived a happy life.
Then I was told “I watched your AV” by a strange stalker man, and the content made me break down crying.
Meanwhile, a tough woman who never gives in at all said, “Don't throw me over to Okazu. Pay the money, scum guy. There are also people who say “(laughs).” An attitude of not succumbing is important.
I wonder what a human ♂♀ act is in the first place.
More specifically, let's imagine the ugly appearance of people who are happy with such videos; it's creepy, but it's also a terrible human saga.
As for sexual activity, all love hotels are full today, thank goodness. Lonely people commit acts to fill their loneliness with each other.
It's also ridiculous to record a video to satisfy one's desires. It's a video that all creepy men who have trouble processing their sexual desires liked today, and I don't think it's okay not to deal with those ugly people who are there from New Year's to New Year's Eve, looking at the fact that they can't generate their own electricity.
Basically, people with bad human nature cannot be changed, and there are actually a variety of people in the world.

I don't see myself being vilified or slandered on the internet.
I encourage you to do that too.

First of all, poor people who enjoy watching videos of other people's misfortune are people living in a spiritual world called the Animal Realm in the form of humans, so it's a waste of time just getting involved. Let's take a calm look. Apart from that, they don't just watch your videos 24 hours a day, and the only people you should deal with are people with more decent humanity.