Should I break up with someone I interact with on SNS

Continuing from last time, this is a love counseling session.
There are people I interact with on SNS.
Yesterday “Thank you for praising myself that nobody has praised me until now”
I said it with courage. but it seems like it didn't resonate with his heart at all
It has been passed through.

The reason I fell in love with him was because he acknowledged me for the first time, and I was shocked to think so.

There have always been places like that, and if he doesn't like it, he says “disappear,”
I've endured it ever since they acknowledged it.
But I'm so sad to think that the compliment you gave me was such a light thing.

I thought over and over about whether we should break up. However, I think he is the only one who acknowledges me this much,
Even if I try to fall in love with someone else, I know they won't like me, so I can't break up.
There is great opposition from those around me.

We never actually met, and we tried many times to meet and get along, but they all failed.
According to the shrine's omikuji, “I don't think the person you're thinking about right now is a very good relationship.” I was told.
In fact, a lot of bad things have happened to him.

When I tried to keep my distance, he said, “I ran away!” There was a time when there was a lot of noise.
The state of wanting to break up but not being able to break up continues.
But should we break up nicely?

3 Zen Responses

I'm worried you might get hurt.

I see ~
I think humans have good aspects, and they also have flaws that catch them a bit. whoever it is.

Even after deducting that, it's about whether or not you can be convinced (accept).

On SNS, the tempo of conversation progresses so well that you think the distance has been shortened, but I think you should still have a respectful conversation, even with someone whose face you can't see.

If it were me, no matter how close we became, I wouldn't say “go away.” That's disrespectful to the other person.
If you say it again, if it's a disrespectful person, they'll keep their distance and stop (interact).
The feeling of liking it also cools down.

I think it would be better for you to decide rather than the voices around you.

No matter how much they acknowledge, I think people who don't have a common sense attitude should stop doing it.
I'm also clinging to this person because I can't have any other relationships.

I'm worried you might get hurt.

Personals also show up on SNS, don't they

“If I don't like it, he said, “Go away.”
“We never actually met, and we tried many times to meet and date, but they all failed.”
“When I tried to keep my distance, he said, “I ran away!” There was a time when there was a lot of noise.”

What I can read from the description of the question in my own way is that the other person is quite selfish, and I feel that they are conveniently treating Meemu.
The other person's past posts probably remain. Let's reread it. Even if you just reread the writing, I think you can tell if Mimu is someone who cares about her or not. At the same time, listen to the opposing voices of those around you. You may often not be able to hear things that hurt your ears because you feel honest. However, in order to live in the human world, it is also necessary to listen to stories that are painful to the ears with a sincere feeling and look back on ourselves.

If you want to stay in a relationship for a long time in the future, you should actually try being with the other person. If they don't want to meet you, isn't there something you feel comfortable about yourself?

We haven't even started dating.

With people I've never met in real life
Breaking up not breaking up
It doesn't work in the first place.
You
At your opponent's convenience
I can only think of it as being decorated.

Because I have a lot of bad feelings
Please wake up early.

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