Regrets about the name
As for my daughter's name, apart from her current name, she originally had a strong desire to give her during pregnancy.
*The current name and original candidate name are as described in the profile.
However, when I proposed the original candidate name to my husband, I was told that I wanted to avoid it for reasons such as using the character “small” in the name, the image is not good, and the number of strokes is bad. (I thought about other kanji, but there aren't any kanji I like, so I ended up with guesswork. I gave up hiragana because the number of strokes wasn't good, and I wanted to use kanji.)
Therefore, the current name was created by applying kanji that are not perfect but have few bad pictures to similar Hibiki names.
Names aren't decided until the day before the birth registration deadline, so is this really OK? There were a few concerns, but I was pressed by the feeling that I had to make a quick decision, so I made an impatient decision.
In the end, my husband also told me that I could use my favorite name, but at that time, I thought that the current eclectic name that the couple had come to terms with would be better, so I chose it.
However, the point I was concerned about came to mind later, I began to regret it, and I couldn't get it out of my head all day long.
The points I'm concerned about the name are as follows.
Although I like Hibiki
① I thought about it by applying kanji that don't have a bad number of strokes to Hibiki, so the characters had a strong sense of guesswork and ended up with characters like stage names. It looks like a boy.
② Even though I was born in March, the kanji I use are summery and don't match the sense of the season
③ Both surname and name are hibiki associated with “fire” and “fire”
Even though I avoided the original candidate name in order to improve the number of strokes and image, after all, the current name is not perfect in terms of name judgment (rather, the original candidate name is better in the three-year-old five-line arrangement), there are also visual concerns, and above all else, there are drawbacks such as not liking the characters, etc., so if that's the case, I don't think I had any regrets if I used the original candidate name.
If you think about it more, I think there were other good names, but I wasn't able to think clearly because I didn't have time and my field of view was getting narrower.
We are not considering changing the name. I am deeply sorry that our couple's indecisiveness and bad habit of not being able to execute it until the due date approaches came up even in the important scene called naming this time.
I have confidence that this is good, and I would like you to tell me how to have a heart to become attached to the name you have decided.
Also, when you look at your daughter's name objectively, do you still care about the above points?
Thank you for your support.
