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Regrets about the name

As for my daughter's name, apart from her current name, she originally had a strong desire to give her during pregnancy.
*The current name and original candidate name are as described in the profile.

However, when I proposed the original candidate name to my husband, I was told that I wanted to avoid it for reasons such as using the character “small” in the name, the image is not good, and the number of strokes is bad. (I thought about other kanji, but there aren't any kanji I like, so I ended up with guesswork. I gave up hiragana because the number of strokes wasn't good, and I wanted to use kanji.)
Therefore, the current name was created by applying kanji that are not perfect but have few bad pictures to similar Hibiki names.

Names aren't decided until the day before the birth registration deadline, so is this really OK? There were a few concerns, but I was pressed by the feeling that I had to make a quick decision, so I made an impatient decision.
In the end, my husband also told me that I could use my favorite name, but at that time, I thought that the current eclectic name that the couple had come to terms with would be better, so I chose it.

However, the point I was concerned about came to mind later, I began to regret it, and I couldn't get it out of my head all day long.

The points I'm concerned about the name are as follows.
Although I like Hibiki
① I thought about it by applying kanji that don't have a bad number of strokes to Hibiki, so the characters had a strong sense of guesswork and ended up with characters like stage names. It looks like a boy.
② Even though I was born in March, the kanji I use are summery and don't match the sense of the season
③ Both surname and name are hibiki associated with “fire” and “fire”

Even though I avoided the original candidate name in order to improve the number of strokes and image, after all, the current name is not perfect in terms of name judgment (rather, the original candidate name is better in the three-year-old five-line arrangement), there are also visual concerns, and above all else, there are drawbacks such as not liking the characters, etc., so if that's the case, I don't think I had any regrets if I used the original candidate name.
If you think about it more, I think there were other good names, but I wasn't able to think clearly because I didn't have time and my field of view was getting narrower.

We are not considering changing the name. I am deeply sorry that our couple's indecisiveness and bad habit of not being able to execute it until the due date approaches came up even in the important scene called naming this time.
I have confidence that this is good, and I would like you to tell me how to have a heart to become attached to the name you have decided.
Also, when you look at your daughter's name objectively, do you still care about the above points?
Thank you for your support.

5 Zen Responses

I think it's a good name. I don't care at all about the points you've pointed out.
Name judgment is fortune telling, and there is no causal relationship with personality or future life.
There have been questions and answers about names in the past, so please refer to them.
It's a good name. Please take good care of it.

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Please love me.

From time to time, there are inquiries from people who are having trouble with naming, and from time to time, we answer them, but the first thing I can say is that everyone is seriously thinking about their names.

I think the name of Rakki-san's child is also very nice. I feel that she is a cute girl just by imagining it.
Most patterns are that once people start worrying about naming, they go around in a daze, take in all kinds of information, and become even more puzzled.
Also, no matter how good it is, what makes one happy is another matter.

There is no coincidence that children are born to their parents.
They are connected by a very deep edge. Also, even though it is named there, it has meaning. Therefore, it can be said that it is the best name for that child.

If you haven't thought about changing your name, then of course you shouldn't do it, but if that's the case, please dispel the bad image and love them to the fullest. That's the best thing.
Incidentally, there is a child with the same name (pronunciation) in the parishioners.

don't worry. It's fine.

① My friend's daughter has the same name.
It's rude to other people with the same name, so it's better to get rid of negative thoughts.

② I have no intention of living with the birth in January on my back.
I don't know when they were born, but I want them to properly convey their parents' wishes about what kind of life they want them to live.
③ Japan is a country surrounded by the ocean. Light the lights in the water country. That's a nice name.

Even though I'm an adult, my parents' experience is only as old as my child's age.
It's not perfect, of course.
It's natural to be anxious and worried.
Let's develop confidence as a parent and child ‼
I'm rooting for you.

Aren't you too caught up in judging names?

I understand the feeling of trying to give you a name that will give you a good fortune by judging your first and last name, but fortune telling is just an afterthought that predicts fortune, and you can't rely on it.

In any case, the name given as a result of serious thought is precious.

I hope the day will come when I can say that I named my child with this kind of seriousness.

That's a wonderful name.

① Reading and characters
I think it looks like a girl.
② It doesn't feel so summery.
③ I imagine housework first.

It's not a glittering name
The reading also feels profound
I think it's a wonderful name though.