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Elementary 6 girls are not suitable for junior high school entrance exams

I know that even if you can study to a certain extent, there are people who are unsuitable for junior high school entrance exams. I have continued to be enrolled in the top class, starting with going to major preparatory schools from the fourth elementary school in general. Elementary 4 and elementary 5 were out of their way, so I was able to get some results, but when I left it just before elementary 6, it went down. Since I was in kindergarten, I've been raising children without getting ready ahead of time, but I still forget a lot of things at school. As a result of neglecting my studies, I began to commit fraud, so now I am managing and monitoring again. The person himself seems to be unable to give up his first choice and slaps his voice, but he's not prepared. I also play games every day. There are times when the time is divided and the total is over 3 hours, and there are times when it takes less than 1 hour. Summer vacation is two weeks, so the summer Tennozan for examinees was probably 3 months of March, April, and May. I think I've set aside the same amount of time to study as an examinee for the time being, but since I don't understand what's inside my daughter's head, I don't know if she's fit. My husband tells my daughter to make a decision about whether to stop or not to stop because I will respect them as an individual and give them 1 month. Even if you stop taking the entrance exam, you won't lose by studying, so I think it's okay to keep going to a cram school that specializes in junior high school entrance exams as it is now. Because of my everyday attitude, cram school is already expensive, and I think I can quit and do whatever I want. I have a strong sense of hate as long as lies, deception, and injustice continue frequently. I think I've told you how difficult junior high school entrance exams are, and even if you play games, if your grades are stable, you won't complain no matter what you do, but your actual grades have dropped. Also, the sight of them playing games without being impatient is infuriating. It's already tough to deal with, so no matter what the person's feelings are, there's no action involved, so I think it's better to stop cram school or entrance exams. Feelings of being deceived, lied to, and sorry are superficial, but I repeat it again, and I can't see remorse or anything. I'm getting sick of dealing with them over and over again.

They also talk about things that aren't boring if time is left, and they talk nicely, say that if they really want to, I'll support them, and my daughter says she'll do her best too. Even when I was studying, I was dazed and fiddled with my fingers, and it was frustrating to watch. I really wish I had stopped. The money spent during this time is so unfortunate. Every time something happened, we discussed it and deepened our family bond, but it's sad that my parents' thoughts weren't conveyed this much. If your daughter isn't suited, it would be better for her to let her stop.

4 Zen Responses

It's a good time to let them experience the entrance to learn about the harshness of society.

Your kid is doing his best, isn't he?
(I made my kid take the junior high school entrance exam too. (I'll leave the results up to your imagination)
I understand your concerns and feelings.
It's not easy to arrive, though.

I think I've been stubborn a lot while my parents were watching and calling out.
Even so, there are some parts that are quite difficult if you leave it up to autonomy while planning your own rhythm.

We can give advice based on various experiences, but for children who are learning right now, I think that's all I can do.

I'm also crunchy, and there's a feeling that we're working hard together, so my feelings didn't arrive (maybe that was just me putting my own feelings on my kids) and I felt betrayed.

No matter what the results of the junior high school entrance exam are, they will advance to middle school.
That experience can also be used to learn about high schools, universities, and societies that are selected in various ways, and I hope it will be an opportunity for me to think about what I am aiming for in my life.

I think it will be a good time not only for entrance exams, but also for letting them experience the entrance to learn about the harshness of society.

Meanwhile, my child is also in middle 3.
I'm taking the exam again. A generation that has to pass important entrance exams while not being able to go to school due to COVID-19.
There are a lot of things I think about (even so, if this kid is doing well, that's fine), and I think so.

Maybe I'm a sweet mother too.
There are many things I don't know what kind of encounter or opportunity will change that person's life.
I hope my current experience will also make my child stronger.

The child is not yours

 Thank you for your hard work as you change your child's future during this period. Please take care of yourself so you don't get tired.
As far as I can read this sentence, I think there is a tendency to try to make the child convenient for you. There are also responses after getting a reply, but I want them to learn how to be a parent, not the rigors of life. What on earth are you making them take the exam for? I can't tell you what kind of appeal the junior high school you are taking the exam at is.
At the junior high school where Hiroshima Prefectural Board of Education superintendent Hirakawa Rie, which was previously broadcast on NHK's Asaichi, served as the principal, the educational method of rebuilding junior high schools that were on the verge of abandonment was unique. Now it seems that there are many people who want to enroll even though it's public. Currently, Indonesian schools are launching world-class education. When I think about that, I feel like I can only find out what is for children in a narrow neighborhood relationship between parents.
Studying isn't something you can do without a goal if you don't really like it. Why don't you aim to be a child that kids like more than the one you like?
This way of saying it is misleading, but even if you enter the University of Tokyo, it's not a talent that can only be used on quiz shows, so please develop the ability to think about what lies ahead of the quiz. Even in the high school quiz championships, questions are being asked that compete to see how this knowledge can be applied to practice, although in the past there were only knowledge. Because of that, famous preparatory schools in Kanto and Kansai suddenly stopped attending. Think about what this means.

 
 

[Forging]

There may be various circumstances, so I'm not going to give advice here on whether to let them take the junior high school entrance exam or not, so please discuss and decide carefully with your family.

However, for children, maybe
The experience of “I failed” or “I wasn't allowed to take the exam” may also be necessary.

The experience of [setbacks] is also an important nutrient for people.

Whether you succeed or fail in the junior high school entrance exam, that is not your ultimate goal in life. I think the question is how the person himself can accept the results and use them as a source of energy to move forward.

“It's frustrating to watch. I really wish I had stopped doing it.”
As the same parent, I think I understand your feelings very well, but I don't want to interfere only with children's growth process as a person rather than their academic ability. As a parent, it's really unbearable to watch my child suffer, but I think it's better for parents to make an effort to “support” and prepare for when they are motivated to break through a wall rather than “intervention” that eliminates the difficulties and dangers in front of the child beforehand.

Aren't you suited for junior high school entrance exams either?

What is the current situation
Control your child
It's as if you're facing an exam.

What are junior high school entrance exams for?

To become a truly independent person
Start studying for the entrance exam for your child
Why don't you just leave it up to me completely?

You can pass or fall with that
Depends on the child.
I think that will feed the future.