Should I directly complain to the temple?
I always enjoy reading it.
I'm worried about the temple that has taken care of my great-grandmother's grave since her generation.
About 20 years ago, the son of the chief priest finished his ascetic practice and began working at a temple. This son is a wonderful Osho who has also participated in community volunteering. But I just don't like it. There are two reasons.
One is that when this Osho performs memorial services and funerals, there are many problems. I was often late and misread my commandments. Also, when there are younger relatives, they suddenly ask questions about going on to college or getting a job, and say words such as “if I change jobs to a more stable job.” I'm thankful, but there are many people in the family who aren't familiar with this Osho who are angry.
The other one is Osho's blog. With his real name, he mentioned the name of the temple and wrote about the events and region of the temple. However, articles that are too candid, such as “I don't feel comfortable with these volunteer members,” have also been published. What surprised me the most was about the deceased parishioners, “Honestly, there is prejudice about this (parishioner) occupation. It was written, “I'm glad we didn't have to meet in my life.” I do the same job as that parishioner. Osho's article gave me an opportunity to review my work once again and think about devoting myself to it. However, I also felt doubtful about disclosing such individual thoughts in a place where anyone can read them.
Better yet, I'm worried about whether I should directly tell the temple “I don't want you to be late as possible,” “I don't want you to call out too much to your relatives,” and “I want the blog to be anonymous or keep the content private.” However, I'm at a loss because I also think it might be Osho's role to give advice to relatives (regardless of being late) and speak out to the world on his blog.
The content is disorganized, but please give me some advice.
