Have I made a mistake?

It says it's a mistake created by immaturity, so the answer to “did I make a mistake?” must have come up within myself.

If you want them to curse you, the content seems like you can do as much as you want, but that's not enough, so let me tell you one story.

These are the words of a child.

“I was flying fast in the air. Then I decided that this would definitely make me happy and jumped in.”

Don't you know whose kids they are?
The one who can't make a mistake is probably your child.
Maybe that kid trusted you and thought that you would make him happy.

If that's the case, is the wrong kid to blame?
It's also a good idea to cut it off and live ruthlessly.

However, since they are only consulting on this site, I'm sure they are consultants if they can't be that ruthless.
If it were really ruthless, I wouldn't even talk about it here...

It's not like I'm proceeding with giving birth.
Nor am I saying you should carry your sins and live tormented by a sense of guilt.

But life is heavy. It's precious. It's a gift. Also, a child who thinks to live all the way but is being looked down upon is a sad child.

I think the sex industry is a job where the body and mind are worn out in exchange for money.
Please, please, don't wear down on your humanity.

In Buddhism, abortion is a crime.
It's a pity for babies not born after choosing parents, and for those of you who don't love babies.
The best thing is to give birth and raise him after acknowledging him.
However, it would be difficult if you are not a kind person who is extremely tolerant.
If you really think about having an abortion, consider entrusting it to the baby mailbox.

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First, let's stop working. Because of your personality, you always repeat things.
By the way, what kind of bastard is a boyfriend who admits to doing sex?
After all, you can't be a father or mother if you don't like that.
Now, in an age where cloned humans will be recognized from now on, is it OK for the lives created to be influenced by human convenience? Should I give birth? It's a horrible time where some children are being born to donate their organs. However, should we always give birth to the life we were given just because it's a pity? Will I stop feeling sorry if I give birth? no.
In the medical manga Black Jack, there is a scene where a deformed child bursts into tears and takes his life.
This is because we know from human history up until now that even if we were born into this world, we will inevitably follow a sad path due to obstacles and deformities.
In your case, problems have already occurred prior to the child's health being born.
Since we were born as a living being, if we take risks, I think we will always suffer twice as much, or more than others.
For me, my only question this time is Tange's personal opinion rather than my opinion as a monk.
Life is certainly precious.
However, when it comes to whether it is precious to give birth to a child without a mother or father, a very sad risk awaits in reality. Everyone is different. I can't get used to that child being born.
I really don't want to say this.
As long as everyone is a monk, I can't tell them to have an abortion.
So, if you give birth, will that child be happy?
Even if you give birth without knowing whose child you are, you will continue to have a lifetime of confusion, regret, and remorse.
Human sperm and eggs exist uniquely apart from parents' wishes. For example, would the life of sperm ejected by sexual activity to deepen marital love be disregarded? Isn't life due to spontaneous ovulation a life?
Life is beyond our sense of ethics.
Just because life is a pity, if they give birth more and more, people all over the world compete for food due to the population explosion, and that is exactly what makes them compete for life. You must go beyond cheap religious views and ethics and choose the real path.
Please visit the temple once with the intention of starting over. I would like to give you direct advice on what to do.

I think they're getting a lot upset right now.

Including the questioner, I don't think there are many women who like and do manners.
When I think about the recent economy, I think there are various family circumstances.

Now, as for the consultation, it is said that the commercially available test drug is positive, but after all, let's have it examined at a specialized institution first.
You may have to make a ruthless decision based on the results. It's a bit unbelievable that a husband would raise a child who doesn't know whose child he is, even if he's good.

I think the question is what the questioner does after that.
We must face this fact properly and live our lives carrying on our shoulders the fact that we have wasted lives that were supposed to be born.

There are many kinds of lives, illnesses, and lives that die, but only the birth parents can give meaning to those lives.

In the case of an abortion, if that experience was able to properly change the way you think about life, it may have played a role in the life that has passed.