About differences in common sense

Oimo's worries aren't going away, are they?

Common sense, but with common sense, as Oimo-san says,
> Each has its own values, and I believe it is a common understanding that social life and relationships proceed smoothly if they have them.

Surprisingly, we also say common sense lightly, but saying this common sense is just personal convenience. The singer called Common Sense is that when the situation changes, it changes more and more. It is common knowledge that times, places, and positions change in an instant.
I think it's that unreasonable.
Therefore, I often hear that he is a guy who doesn't have common sense, but that is nothing but convenience.

Well, even if it's a family, it's an individual gathering. Naturally, values, education, and discipline are slightly different. Therefore, if you don't clearly convey what you want to convey, it will cause misunderstandings.

The case of my sister-in-law this time is also slightly different, so maybe it's better not to think about solving it with common sense or the like. Everyone's values are different, so it's always a parallel line.
Besides, I think not being kind from now on is a bit different. That means they're asking for something in return.
Then there will be no family ties or connections. Let's think that what is only for others is for oneself.

From now on, we should probably use common sense rather than common sense.

Hello, nice to meet you.

“I'm very disappointed with my biological parents and brother, who are on the shoulders of my sister in law who did an unjust act.” It's probably because “my sister-in-law didn't say thank you for the request she made to me.”

From a third party's point of view, I don't know the details of this “request” or what kind of conversations were exchanged before and after that. However, it doesn't wait for discussion that a thank you is necessary regardless of whether the “request” is important or trivial. I agree with you in this sense. You have defined “common sense” in your own way, and you seem to be a person who can look at things very calmly. I agree with that definition, too.

“There is courtesy even in close relationships,” and that's true.
I think the parents' defense of “I was grateful even though I didn't put it into words” is a bit of a painful statement.

However, “common sense” is fine with “common sense,” but I would also like you to consider the fact that people who are flexible have fewer conflicts when it comes to socializing with people. This is to value the assumption that “each person has values,” as you yourself wrote with the definition of common sense.

After all, “common sense” is the greatest common denominator of the “individual values” of people living today. More specifically, what you think of as “common sense” is “common sense” in your strike zone, and you should look at it with the possibility that general “common sense” has a slightly larger zone. In other words, modern “common sense” does not necessarily mean your “common sense.”

I think this is a necessary point of view when dealing with people, to be more objective and humble.

Also, it says, “I didn't do anything kind to thank you.” As far as your mind is concerned, it seemed to be true. However, isn't it also true that they didn't “end comfortably” because they weren't thankful? If so, I think it's logically inevitable that you would be “thankful” according to “common sense” from the bottom of your heart and think that you were acting out of place and were not at peace. There may be a need to view oneself objectively even in this regard.

I'm not impressed that your parents and younger brother have “isolated” you, who were originally your immediate family and someone you should protect. However, if it's difficult to change your partner, I think the most realistic thing is to change yourself.

[Three Forgetting Fuses]
First, what did you do?
Second, who did you give it to?
Third, the act itself was done.

The Buddha said that when you did something to someone with good intentions, forget everything from one end.

It doesn't mean that I don't understand your feelings or what you say as a human being. However, not saying thank you is selfish. Whether you appreciate it or not, it's still the other person's challenge, not yours.

Rewards such as money and goods are a matter of course, and if they wanted even one acknowledgment of social decree, they probably should have exchanged such a contract beforehand. Even if your partner is unscrupulous, as soon as you say “give me about one thank you,” you may even think that your partner took a mount, gave you a favor, or even grasped your weakness. It means that even good deeds will be ruined.

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I read your question.
You're right to be angry.

No matter what the content is,
If you ask someone for something,
Thank you so much!
I think it's common sense to say that.

A fool is someone who can't be thankful
I try to draw a line.

Whether it's someone else,
Whether they're relatives,
Whether it's above your eyes,
No matter who it is,

Thank you very much.

I'm taking good care of it.
Thank you very much.
The etymology of
Thank you very much.

It just means thank goodness.

What is the opposite word for Shinto and Buddha
I'm always grateful.
Thank you for your kindness.

With people who can't say such things
I think it's okay to draw a line,
To my parents and younger brothers who protect me
I was also disappointed
I understand it very well.

thank you! The word
It's a feeling of gratitude.
A fool wants to take good care of it
I'm thinking.

Idiots run companies,
In a job interview,
Thank you very much.
If you can't say that,
We will never adopt it.
Career and work history
It doesn't matter.
They also came here for an interview,
Thank you so much!
I would like to say that.

Your values are
I want you to take good care of it,
I think so.

For the time being,
Hanging out with relatives
I don't mind if you don't mind,
Isn't there one?

However,
We don't argue.
If you sincerely apologize, I'll forgive you.

These 2 points
Thank you very much for your support.

Please be happy
Have a nice time.