Hello Kawasaki-san. Thank you for writing.
When I did a search with the phrase “even if you commit suicide, you will be a loser in your life, and you will be unhappy in the next life,” a website that looked like that came up.
To be honest, I'm surprised to see the content. There are various forms of Buddhism in the world, and hasunoha is not a place to criticize Buddhism from a position different from my own, so I won't add criticism, but I can't nod what is written on the website in question. I don't think so.
The sutras that serve as the source are not shown, but as far as I can read the sentences on the website, it seems that the person who wrote them read the early Buddhist sutras and added their own interpretations.
Next, as my acceptance, I'll think about whether the Buddha explained that committing suicide is a loser in life.
Yes. The Buddha I know doesn't explain such things. However, in Buddhism, there are a huge number of sutras, and there are also those that contain content that contradicts each other, as it is called the 84,000 Dharma. Therefore, it is no wonder that some of the sutras preach this way.
Among the sutras (Jodo Sanbu Sutra) that I myself cherish, I don't know, and I've never heard of, the Buddha saying suicide is good or bad.
The Buddha doesn't say it's okay to commit suicide, and he doesn't say it's no good, does he? In “Buddha Sekkan Muryojukyo,” the Buddha said, “You are an ordinary man.” It can be stated. In the sutras, these are words addressed to Queen Idaike, and I accept that these words were not limited to Idaike alone, but addressed to each and every one of us.
I think that ordinary people are people who are swayed by worries, lose their way in life, and lose their way in death. The Buddha told us that it was that kind of person, didn't he?
For myself, it's hard to live, and I think it's sad to take my own life because I think it will be easier when I die. It's sad that I have no choice but to choose to die because I don't want to live.
On the other hand, I don't want to insult someone who chose their own death as a loser in life. The Buddha in me doesn't say that after all. I think these are words that hurt that person's dignity and hurt the people around them.
What do you think of Kawasaki-san himself?