What happens after a divorce?

You wanted to get a divorce, right?
If that's the case, my wish has come true, so I'm glad.

In exchange for that, I lost a lot of things. There's no such thing as not having thought that much about it. they're adults, aren't they?

My wife and kids will have a hard time with that.
A nuisance to parents and the workplace.
That, too, is what happened to you.
If you think about it, you can make predictions.

There is no choice but to accept the whole reality and carry it on your back.
A lot of things remain lost.

For you, this is the desired result.
The future will only be known to you.

Hello. Thank you for your question.

I read it, but they say they decided to get divorced because your “love” has cooled down
Is it OK to understand?

On top of that, I would like to state a few things that I think.

I wonder if my wife is not at fault?
Then, please reduce the misfortune of your child and wife as much as possible.

> I'm getting a divorce like this this spring, am I making the wrong choice?

Life choices come back to you, and I think it's up to you to decide whether or not it was a mistake.

“Aren't you being swayed by your younger subordinates?” I think, but that's why I don't know about your marital relationship up until now,

Other people can only make decisions without permission, and no one will understand in the long run.

> Will I be happy again in the future?

> I think my wife will have a hard time becoming a mother and child family, but now I think it can't be helped.

> What will happen to me in the future?

↑ it's self indulgence.

How about it.

> I know no one is going to be happy with this divorce.

Please try to make the people you are involved with as happy as possible.
That's because it would be difficult to make people around you unhappy and make yourself happy.

Still, I want to be with my subordinates.

Just in case, aren't you asking that subordinate to “fill in the blanks” in your wife's “lacking” points?

In that case, when you get together with that subordinate,
Why don't you find another “hole”...

I often hear that they notice how big they are after losing them.

After much careful consideration...

Hello.

I'm asking, “Am I making the wrong choice?”
I'll check what the question means, but for you, what are the criteria for being “wrong” and not being “wrong”? What are your assumptions?

They also asked, “Will I be happy in the future?”
I'll check the meaning of the question again, but are you asking if you can “become” or “not be” based on the premise of “happiness” for you?

If this is the standard for not being “wrong” (in other words, correct), and if you think that doing what you want is “happy,” the reality is almost exactly what you want, so I think you are “happy” in that sense. Other than “making your parents stand for questioning,” “causing trouble,” and not “forgiving my wife who broke up at work.”

You're probably asking why you're “being happy” or “making the wrong choice” even though you're becoming “happy” as you expected. Then, they probably ask their own future, “What will happen in the future?” Aren't you asking because you don't have confidence in “happiness” according to your own standards?

Perhaps the standard you have in mind, a direction different from “happiness,” is your true standard, and may lead to a “happy” “future.”

“What happens” is up to you.

They deserved it.
Rust that comes out of the body.

If you look at it from a third party
Letting go of trouble to the surroundings
I think it was the wrong choice
For you
that was probably the only choice
It can't be helped.