hasunoha

I'm having trouble balancing nursing care and work.

Please show wisdom, monk.
I have a father in his 80s who has cancer.
I am recuperating at home with no chance of a complete cure.

Make breakfast before going to work and dinner when you get home
We make, prepare baths, etc., and provide nursing care. When I'm at work, I ask my wife and relatives to take care of me. I am so sorry and grateful.

Do anticancer drug treatment while going to the hospital within 1 month
The thing is, there are a total of 10 days. Me, my wife, and my relatives
Somehow they accompany me on a rotation basis.

I was telling my boss about my family, but it was decided that I would be transferred. I am seriously aware that I am blessed to have a job. I often take time off for nursing care, so my stomach hurts because I think the transfer destination will cause trouble.

It may be difficult to balance work and nursing care,
Please use wisdom so that I can work hard in a positive way.

3 Zen Responses

like each other.

Good morning.
I read your question.

I also sent a family member with cancer.
From experience, if I had to tell you
Don't rely on “I'm sorry.”
This is important.

I'm supposed to be imposing more sorry on my father than Mr. Marble feels.

It is natural for the quality of life to change due to nursing care, illness, and disability.
There are also new perspectives and learnings from it.

You don't worry about whether it's a nuisance; it's up to the company to decide.
The company should create a support system that can return Marble's skills to the company rather than being a nuisance.

What Marble does is determine whether the company has that ability.

First of all,
Please take good care of thanking your friends.
However, I would like you to aim for a “mutual” relationship rather than “sorry.”

Double booking in my heart, but no double booking in fact

Hello. Your heart's second, Danpei Tange. () Say no, break up, personal feelings.
First, for tomorrow, that ①, for today, for now, that ① is “straight.” Face the facts. It's about looking directly at where reality actually stands.
Right now, your mind is busy with two things, sometimes work, and you have to do this or this, and your face looks like an Ashura statue or Ashuraman.
My heart is scattered when I think that humans have a lot to do, and it's like a statue of Ashura. However, all of those faces and hands come from one heart. The same brush for drawing demons and drawing Buddha. We all have one heart.
In spite of the fact that you have to do this now, and you have to do that either, hey hey, I'm just watching this, and I have peace of mind or time to read it, the sane switch will be activated.
Certainly, there are times when they take care of Oton too. Also, there will be times when you have to work. When I was depressed, I bumped into a street performer named Akira Kawahara all over town, and I had a lot of trouble at the time, but 40 minutes passed in no time. I was moved by that art and speech. There is YOUTUBE. Even if you say that we have to do that too, and that we have to do this, where are we doing it? It's one right hand. One left hand.
I have to go there too. I have to go to Dashi for that too. Where are the legs that carry that body? Where have they arrived? There it is. 👣 your 👣, buttocks, thighs, knees, calves Even though the world is large, there is only one place where it can stand. Stand up, stand up, place. That place, one step there. Please stand right there. Oh, I thought I had a lot to do, but even so, I'm reading this sentence right now, isn't this where I stand! It's about looking directly at the facts. That way, so that even craftsmen who handle tens to millions of tasks at a factory can concentrate their hands on one part, they will be able to open their eyes to the infinity of possibilities of what they have done, been able to do, and be able to do on the spot, on the spot, and find a way out there. But don't overdo it. 👊

Why not consider a specialized facility?

The Jodo Shinshu Honganji School (Nishi Honganji) is working on it
It's called “Asoka Vihara Hospital”
There is an independent palliative care ward (vihara ward) based on the Buddhist spirit.

I received training as a clinical religious teacher here
If I were like that
I wanted to get in here.

http://www.asokavihara.jp/index.html