How to relate to parents

I read it.
Being with your mother makes you want to die, too, and I don't think it's unreasonable for you to think so. I understand your feelings from the bottom of my heart.
A lot of things have probably happened until now when my mother divorced my father. Even as we didn't live together, things didn't go well, or maybe they got emotional and hurt each other. I don't know the details, but it may have gotten to the point where we had no choice but to break up.
Nonetheless, it may be difficult for a mother to accept breaking up with her father. Even now, they can't accept that, and they may be thinking that they want to die because they are sad and sad, and even living every day has become difficult. You don't know the details unless you're a mother, but in your mother's current situation, you may not be able to live without thinking so.
It must be really painful for you to keep being told that by your side. And you probably won't be able to accept it yourself either. I also think it will be difficult for you to live and make you want to die.
Nonetheless, your life and life are precious, and they are important. Also, the mother's life and life are important.
Both you and your mother have a future ahead of you.
If it's difficult for a mother to switch her mind right away, I think it's okay to keep a reasonable distance. Also, let everyone around you listen to your feelings. Also, let's get support from everyone around you, both you and your mother.
We don't live alone; we live together with many people supporting each other. Please actively ask everyone around you to protect you.
Also, please share your thoughts here as well.
Please share your painful feelings here as well.
I'm always waiting for you.
I sincerely pray that you will be able to live through every day with peace of mind with everyone around you from now on, and that your mother will also be able to live every day with you in peace of mind.

There was probably a reason for the divorce, but if you saw your mother's painful appearance or was told that she wanted to die, what would happen to me would make even you sad and painful.

Tell your mother that there is Hasunoha. I think it would be great if everyone could support it.

Also, you should take care of your present. You, too, were swayed by your parents' divorce, so you probably have feelings where you have nowhere to go.

Parents aren't the only ones you can rely on. That's because you should rely on people around you and people you can trust.
Thank you for caring about my mom.

If you have a hard time or feel lonely, always come here. That's because the Buddha will also be by your side.

If that were true, I would like you, the young lady, to be encouraged by your mother.
It must be really difficult, but please support them. If you have any problems, please contact us anytime.
Thank you for your hard work even though you are young.
Your mother is human too. It's the Son of Man. It's the same person.
I've also been with my uncle and aunt since I was little. As a result, I began to think that adults and children are the same person, and that age doesn't really matter (laughs). By understanding the complicated circumstances of adults, your mind will grow dramatically.
The mother must have broken up with her father and is in pain, loneliness, and she doesn't know where to direct her heart.
If you guess your mother's feelings, there may be a few things that apply.
As you encourage your mother, please read her psychology to some extent.
~ 👩 Let's help mom ~
👧 How does mom feel?
through divorce
① I have regrets
② I feel embarrassed (family, friends, public body)
③ I'm lonely
④ I'm sorry for the kids
⑤ I'm looking for understanding from children
⑥ I have something to say to my dad (feeling betrayed, unforgivable, I want to apologize, I want to apologize, sad, I want you to understand)
⑦ Others
If you take that area and ask your mom and tell her, I think she'll be able to accept your feelings. 👩👧 big huh?
Humans, adults, and children alike want someone to accept that feeling when they're sad or when it's hard.

I encourage my mom.
When mom is having a hard time, it's just communication.
Let's push them in a bright direction so they don't turn their heart in a bad direction.
There's something I want my mom to understand, too.
① I'm sad that I broke up with my dad, but if my mom made my mind even a little easier, I think that's fine. (I'll reassure you)
② Rather than continue to suffer like this, let's go see him together next time. (Change the status quo)
③ I think Dad will change his mind someday, so rather than worrying, let's discuss and find solutions together. (advance)
There must always be times when you say “I want to do this” even when it's hard.
Please tell your mom an idea that would make it come true, or something similar. If you have any problems, please call us anytime.