I read your question.
When it comes to getting married, it's about deciding your own life, so you have to be careful.
I'm really sorry.
Now, I think, including the previous question, isn't Shiratama-san a little impatient?
Let's calm down a bit first.
Also, please calmly look at your surroundings and your current situation.
In my experience, not everyone is happy when they go out with or get married because they feel they are “the person of their destiny” without knowing much about their partner.
Rather, it's not a very good relationship, and I feel that there are many people who break up or get divorced.
This is a matter of course if you think about it logically. Marriage is when people with different values, cultures, and personalities walk together throughout their lives. And that doesn't change that much after becoming a full-fledged adult.
Therefore, it is important to confirm compatibility through various stories and relationships until you get married, and decide whether you can walk with this person.
What happens when you get married without trying to see the true compatibility between your partner and yourself for the vague reason “because they are the person of destiny”? Marriage is real life. Ideals and fantasies are quickly awakened. After waking up, “Why did you marry someone like this?” There are more than a few cases where people become disillusioned.
So, instead of searching for the “person of your destiny,” try searching for “someone you can walk happily with.” This will surely lead to future happiness.
To do that, you won't know until you've been in a relationship for a while and have a look at the other person's personality. Of course, I don't think it's necessary to go out with someone you're not really interested in, but if you've dated someone you think “might be good,” take your time and take a look at them.
Among them, I found a lot of good points about my partner, and before I knew it, I think there were times when I was attracted to them.
Please refer to something at least a little bit.
Anything is fine, whether it's anxiety or additional consultations, so if necessary, please refer to the profile and use individual consultations via email or ZOOM.
