The kid...

I was given a life expectancy declaration last month. A cute girl who is only 8 years old. However, you can see that it is getting weaker day by day. I'm currently undergoing radiation therapy, and it makes me cry when I think this won't help. I know I'm going to do what I can for them now, but it's very painful and difficult to accept. I'm worried about my surroundings, and when I think about when and what time... I can't rest my mind and I can't sleep easily at night. please help me.

3 Zen Responses

Cuddling

I saw your question.
I think it's really painful.
I can't say anything, please cuddle up to them.
Please stay by your side even if it's hard for you to watch.
It's about being able to at least be on your side after years spent doing nothing.
Namu Myōhō Renge Kyō

Take a comprehensive look at everything, including things after death and before birth

Why don't you put aside learning about this world in hospital classes, etc., and research and think about important details that aren't taught at all at school, such as what life means, what death is, what it was like before you were born, etc., and be prepared as well as possible for the time to come.
The person in question is about herself, so I think she's more serious than her mother. We may feel sad and upset, but once we have the information we need, our sense of security is different.
Even in Buddhism, the content has somehow been avoided by imitating the world, but...
Elder Sumanasara's “What Happens After Death?” Things that are immediately useful, such as Kadokawa Bunko and the elder's YouTube sermons, are explained in simple and clear Japanese. Please refer to it.

Thank you Nacchan for your consultation.

I'm guessing it's an unmotivated, painful, and emotional situation that will tear your heart apart.
It is said that a mother in such a situation lamented that “medical care has been abandoned.”
However, I did my best and let them do what they wanted to do,
It seemed like they were aiming to survive.
Other people's eyes don't matter. I don't think there's a fixed answer.
So, by being able to do something, Nacchan's family's own way,
I think it will be wrapped in kindness and love.
Also, I think it will go on forever.
I hope you keep that in mind, at least a little bit.

Also, it may happen no matter what, without having too much pain or suffering,
Please feel free to contact us as many times as you like.
Someone's words might be a supporting keyword.
One bow
PS: Thanks for your message. It's understandable that it's not acceptable. We will continue to pray that you will be wrapped in kindness and warmth without blaming us for not being accepted. Goodbye

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