Even though I'm married, I'm worried about my co-workers!!

Hello.

It's called a “serious problem,” so let's respond “seriously.”

I wrote that it was “definitely due to sexual desire rather than romantic feelings.” In other words, I look at that “colleague” as an object of “sexual desire,” and I want to satisfy my own “sexual desire.”

If you imagine it a little, you'll understand, but those “colleagues” also have hearts. Normally, as “romantic feelings” heighten, it probably becomes a deep relationship called “sex.”

On the other hand, you only see that “colleague” as an object that satisfies “sexual desire.” It ignores her heart and her “romantic feelings,” and sees it as someone who satisfies only her own “desires.” It's the same as saying that her heart is useless. Can you understand how cruel it is to disdain someone's heart?

This is common among people who have affairs, but they are too selfish. The extent to which they try to prioritize and maximize the satisfaction of one's own heart over the heart of a spouse and the heart of a child is terrible. A job only such a person can do is adultery. In front of this person, ethics, morality, and human heart are nothing but roadside stones.

If you want to live with “lower body intentions,” that would also be fun, but if you want to live with a “half-body intention” like a human being as a husband and parent, I recommend that you take this a good opportunity to review yourself.

I read it.
I understand your feelings very well. It certainly gets bothersome, doesn't it? I think it would be quite difficult to overcome that desire. I understand your feelings from the bottom of my heart.

Nonetheless, since it's based on your heart's simple sexual desire, that person's heart just seems exciting to you. It's just a transient reaction.

I think it's unavoidable that it gets into your eyes. Just don't watch too much, and you should never go out to dinner together. Even if by any chance we happen to eat a meal together, we should never go any further than that, and we can't invite them from you. And even if that person invites you by any chance, don't accept it.

Again, it's just your sexual desire that makes you do that, and it's really transient; it's something that will eventually pass.

What's more, it's not like you like that person, and you're just looking at that person's breasts as sexual objects.

I think it is desirable to respect that person's humanity and attitude. It's just a work relationship, isn't it?

I sincerely pray that you will be able to live a healthy, peaceful, and happy life with all of your precious family members every day.

Thank you so much for your response. It's what everyone thinks, and there's no shame in that. Under such circumstances, I am also living. Let's work hard together. We wholeheartedly agree

For example, if you write your wife's name on your lower body with magic, you'll stand in the way of an embarrassment where if you try to have an affair, your affair partner will look at you.
After 10 years, you too will start to have gray hair mixed into your lower hair.
My lower body is in grandpa's group even when I wear parentheses.
Would you like young children to see it?
Also, your gaze and attitude should have been noticed by your partner and co-workers.
Everyone is so kind that they just pretend they don't notice.
If you think that too is embarrassing, it might be a brake.

Men are weak against boobs, aren't they?

But what's not good
After all, it's not good
The situation when it was revealed
Don't be fooled by imagining it realistically.