Is listening to your problems a hobby?
I have a question.
I get people who are worried say, “Because Mr. 00 will listen to me,” and I can listen to the words of people who have been worried until now without denying it, and they say that I'm glad they listened to me when the situation improved, and I'm glad they stayed. Of course, I'm also in a good situation with my partner, and I'm happy that I was able to help someone
Is that “complacency” or “just a hobby of listening” like that?
This is because when I'm listening, of course, I'm not asking for anything in return, and I'm sure the other person was no good at talking to someone else, so I think they're confiding in someone who seems to listen, and if they even deny me, this person surely understands that it's painful because there are no outlets anywhere
I'm listening because I think it would be nice if my opponent could improve even a little
I was confused when they said it was my hobby
Does listening to worries become that kind of hobby?
Do counselors and the like who talk about the world's problems do it as a hobby?
Then, do the monks who answer the nation's problems on this site also listen with “complacency” or “hobbies”?
When I was told, I didn't even think I was doing it with that intention, so I can't move forward anymore
Thank you for your support.
