Rather than the incident itself, I took it as a question about anger and emptiness about “why are these people born” and “is there no responsibility for society as a whole.” I will answer from a Buddhist point of view.
1. The point of view that “everyone is on paper”
In Buddhism, it is called “good fortune,” and it is explained that people do not exist only by their own strength, but that they live supported by countless relationships. Therefore, when someone is cornered and causes an incident, it is impossible to separate them from “having nothing to do with themselves.” The feeling that “everyone is on top of the line” that you feel is truly proof that you are feeling good fortune with your skin.
2. The true nature of anger
The thought “I don't know what my head is bleeding against” is also natural. In Buddhism, anger is said to be caused by “ignorance (a state where the essence of things cannot be seen).” The social structure, education, and family environment behind the incident — anger about “is it okay in this kind of world?” springs up precisely because the complicated causal relationships are not visible. This is not a bad thing, and it can also be said that a sense of mercy that “I want a world that does not create people to suffer” is reflected from the inside out.
3. Feelings that feel “hypocritical”
The reason why people who say “unforgivable” and “scary” were felt to be hypocritical is probably because you really accept society as a whole as your own. In Buddhism, it is explained that “self and others are unique (jitafuni).” You and others are inseparable, and blaming someone is also blaming yourself. I think it is precisely because that sense is sharp that we feel empty in others' reactions.
4. What you can do
Buddhism values small steps, even when it seems “impossible forever.”
First, focus your heart on “the people around you who have been cornered”
Change words of criticism or anger to “questions” (e.g., “Why was this person so isolated?”)
When you feel anger, rethink it as “the germ of a wish to improve society”
summary
The anger within you is not just anger, but an expression of your desire to “be a world that does not create people who suffer.” One way of living in Buddhism is not denying that wish, but rather nurturing them as a force of mercy. Even if it is difficult to change society as a whole, you can stay close to “someone who is being cornered on a fine line” through your own words and actions.
Gassho