Your question is very deep, and it is something that many people feel in the back of their hearts at least once.
There is nothing wrong with those who lost their lives in earthquakes and wars.
Even so, “unreasonable suffering” certainly exists in this world.
Buddha was also the one who looked at exactly this “irrationality.”
1. The truth that “life is painful”
In Buddhism, we look at the starting point of life as “suffering.”
They are born, old, sick, die, break up with loved ones, their wishes don't come true, and they are at the mercy of unreasonable events.
All of this is regarded as “suffering.”
In other words, suffering is not the result of someone's sin; it is the fate of living itself.
The Buddha was not pessimistic, but rather explained it as “understanding the truth.”
2. “Why that person?” The limits of the question
Even if you search for “whose fault is it” or “why not yourself” for the cause of unfairness,
You can't keep up with human understanding at all.
In Buddhism, everything in this world is explained as “luck,” where countless causes and relationships overlap.
It is not God's punishment or fate; it is an event that occurs in a connection beyond human knowledge.
That's why the question is not “why,” but “how to live in the present.”
3. Suffering is the gateway to “connection”
Facing the suffering of earthquakes and wars, we feel powerless.
However, it is this sensitivity that moves the heart to the pain of others is the sprout of mercy.
A heart that suffers from “why am I the only one alive”
Actually, it's a form of “prayer” for those who have died.
By sharing, grief becomes prayer, and it changes into a power to envelop others.
4. Seeing Light Amidst Irrationality
Unreasonable cannot be explained by human logic.
However, there is certainly “human kindness” in it.
People who helped each other in the rubble, people prayed for someone else,
And all of your heart asking “why” is the heart of a Buddha blooming in the midst of suffering.
The Buddha said.
“He who knows suffering knows how to heal other suffering.”
5. Lastly
Buddhism asks “how to live” rather than “why.”
Rather than searching for answers, we live by praying.
While feeling sad, they show kindness to someone.
That is the greatest memorial service for those who have passed away.
Please don't let your kindness disappear in the midst of suffering.
It is the very “preciousness of human beings” to live beyond irrationality.
Incidentally, I'm a Shingon Buddhist monk.
Gassho