hasunoha

About naming

I recently gave birth to a child.
As for the name, I don't even regret it, but am I really glad I chose this name? I have that thought, and I've been thinking about it all day long.

I want to enjoy the cute season, but I can't get that out of my head and search the internet to see if there are children with the same name and how their names are written.
I also feel that my time is really a waste, but I can't quit because of anxiety.

I wrote my child's name on my profile.
My husband and wife named it with all their heart, but since it's a name with an unusual sound, they are often asked back.

If there is no response from within myself saying that they are cute, I feel uneasy, and I'm excited because I'm worried about what kind of reaction they will have when asked for their name.

The person himself has taken too many names from now on, but since my parents know that this is no good, my mind is extra confused.

4 Zen Responses

You will continue to grow healthily

I read it.
Congratulations on your birth. I sincerely congratulate you. We wholeheartedly agree
I read something that bothered me a lot after you named your child. I understand your feelings from the bottom of my heart.
I saw your child's name and I felt it was a very good name. I'm sure your child will grow up healthily.
I'm sure you and everyone will raise your child with love, and I think your child will grow up peacefully by forming relationships with many people.
Please raise them with confidence and peace of mind.
I sincerely pray that your children will be loved by you and everyone and that they will grow up healthily, and that everyone will be able to live together and share happiness from the bottom of your heart.
And I wholeheartedly support you, your children, and everyone.

I think it's a great name.
Even if you don't care about ○○, I think it would be nice to make it easier to say if you call them “○-chan.”
The kanji also have a good meaning, don't they?
I hope they grow up bright and healthy.

Convey your feelings each time

 Nice to meet you. In this thread called “Naming Children,” the thought “was this name good?” is spelled out from so many people. Have you read it too?
It is said that “the sound is unusual, so it is heard back,” and it is good to answer each time. Then, use it as a switch and enjoy the feelings that the couple put into this name. I work at a kindergarten, and I see a lot of names called “it used to be difficult to read.”
At that time, I asked my parents, “What kind of thoughts did you choose these characters and sounds?” I ask. Everyone, please speak clearly about your wishes as parents.
No matter what happens to your child's name, please go back to this starting point. “Yes, I was told it was hard to read. But dad and mom said, “It would be wonderful if you became this kind of person, so they chose them.” It's like saying, “I love you.” Calling someone by name is a sign that reminds them of love and parental responsibility.

While writing such a thing, I suddenly thought about being a little boy. I am a member of the Jodo sect and praise “Namu Amida Buddha.” And then he said, “Oh, there are places I haven't reached. It reminds me of “And even so, there is a Buddha who accepts” (it's been a long time). Maybe it's similar to that.
I will repeat it. I think being called by an affectionate name conveys affection.

Look, write, call, love you and it will become “my name”

I read your name and origin. I see... I was impressed that it was a wonderful wish, but the sound of the name conveyed my parents' feelings. When I called my child by name, they smiled at me, and I was amazed that they must be cute.

And yet, does it end up searching?
You may hear back from people around you, but it's also because you have a feeling that you want to know. What characters do you write? What does that mean? It also becomes a connection that people are interested in.

There are so many naming consultations due to Hasunoha. Most of them looked it up on the internet and became uneasy. There is no love for children on the internet, even though there is an overflow of information. What kind of children they grow up to is influenced a lot by their parents, family, and the environment where they meet in real life.
Even if they ask your name back, please call them as many times as you like and give them love.

I've been working in a garden, so I've met a lot of children. The name becomes “my name” when you see it with your eyes, write it, call it, love it. Just hearing it with your ears isn't just a name.

As I said at the beginning, my feelings were conveyed, and even I was able to smile lovingly. Your child will be able to sense love for their name while looking at their facial expressions and mouths as to what kind of voice they call out with.

Please put your heart and soul into your name.
Mom, you did your best to give birth. Your children were born well, too.
That alone is priceless.
I hope for healthy growth.